Do you have any creative discipline techniques?

There's a few that works for me my sons have a problem cleaning there room sometimes and I used to get frustrated but now is there room is not cleaned no tv,nooutside,no dinner until the room is done.When I would ask my kids why they did something wrong they would say I dont know but it's funny because when it's time to play the game or go outside the will say dad when can we go outside and I would say I don't know and then they would go on and tell me why they did bad that day.

Creative Discipline Techniques

Have them decide each others punishment. For example: Washing the cars, cleaning windows, cleaning the garage, painting the fence... Then make them do both punishments together so that they learn to do things as a "team". One overseeing the others punishment like a guide/coach. The key is making them organizing the whole chore or process so that when it gets done it is done right the first time or they have to do it all over again until till it gets done right. Mom/Dad, is the ultimate approval so that there is no way around them covering each others tracks the job should be an A++. Mom/Dad should secretly supervise to see if they are doing it as a team, compromising, not arguing... or they start over.

If they are old enough to play outside by themselves (are 10 and 13 the ages you're talking about?) And you get sick of them being a pain in the rear end inside, ground them outside. Don't let them in unless it's to use the bathroom. Of course, provide them with water to drink and a snack, but it will serve a dual purpose. Number one, it gets them away from the tv, computer, video games, phone, ect. and number two, it gets them into the fresh air where they have to be creative in figuring out how not to "die of boredom"

I know this may sound terrible but... LITERALLY stop talking to them. leave post its around the house to tell them when meal time is and other normal interactions. Children tend to be very self involved and self concerned. They will most likely team up to figure out what is up with you. Use that time to start a conversation about what you expect vs what they are entitled to.

I would recommend you take a look at The Total Transformation Program by James Lehman, MSW. It is a step-by-step, multi-media program designed to help parents manage challenging behaviors in children and teenagers.

The program uses cognitive learning theory and behavior management techniques to help children and adolescents change their behavior. Parents learn to teach their children how to solve social problems rather than respond to these problems with defiance, blaming, anger or abusive behavior. The Total Transformation focuses on changing thinking rather than changing feelings to achieve better behavior—an approach that differs from traditional insight-oriented therapy.

James Lehman addresses the full spectrum of behavior problems in children and teens: defiance, back talk, lying, disrespect, acting out in school, homework struggles, refusal to get out of bed or do chores, tantrums, cursing, substance abuse, lack of motivation and abusive behavior. He provides specific recommendations on how to handle each behavior, with guidance on what to do and what to say to the child.

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I read this book called "Creative Correction" by Lisa Welchel. She played "Blair" on that show, "The Facts of Life". Anyway, it's packed full of wonderful ideas and amazing encouragement. I would highly reccomend it! I refer back to it all the time. Good luck!

Ummm, my mom makes my brother (15) and I (13) cancell our weekend plans, spend the whole day together, or gives us extra chores that takes up our hanging out time.

When my kids would fight or be mean to eachother, I would make them kiss and make up. THEY HATED IT!!! But in the end it would make them laugh.