A question about Christianity and divorce...Opinions?

God gave provisions for divorce... marrying because it was the right thing to do only to regret it, wasn't one.

Well, in the first place if he didn't love the girl he got pregnant why did he fornicate? That's the first sin and according to God's word he did the right thing by marrying her and he should really look to God to receive the love he needs to make this relationship work~it is honorable to remain stable for the child~ maybe they both need redemption and in that case they would receive the love necessary ~who knows, they are candidates for miracles

In such a case the marriage would not be valid from the start, and could be annuled. This has nothing to do with divorce from a Christian perspective, though he would still have to get a divorce to fulfill the civil requirements. Give unto Caesar that which is Caesar's.

Why doesn't the man just ask God what to do in the first place, he can provide for the child without marrying the mother of it. The problem is people get married and never ask God if it is right because of the lust in their hearts, one towards another.

Is there any possible way that he can grow to love the woman? You can chose to love a person or not. If you do divorce, that does not give you the license to remarry. That would then be adultery.

"What God has joined, let no man seperate"

"Til Death do us part"

Your vows are what they are. If you break them, then you will need to consider the consequences. Marriage is not something to enter lightly, as God does not take lightly.

Yes. You learn to love. This is why you wait til after marriage to have sex.

Till death do you part!!! lol