Do you think it's fair to tell your husband that you're in the middle of divorcing?

LOL she has no claim anymore. She cheated and left for another man. How selfish could one woman be?

What goes around, comes around. Sounds like the wife got exactly what she deserves.

So why isn't the husband filing for a divorce? Seems like the best thing she did for him, is leave. He needs to change the separation in to a divorce and get on with his life.

That's horrible. That man needs to get some balls and divorce her, he doesn't need to be the victim anymore. She's just playing games, and keeping him on a leash for when she can't find anything better. HE deserves better.

If they're legally separated they can see other people.

It is sometimes a thing that happens when couples need to figure things out. Let them do so and hopefully they'll get back on track.

No that is not fair to keep him hanging like that. 'He' needs to let 'her' know that 'he is in the middle of divorcing her', and he needs to move on and not allow himself to be munipulated into playing her selfish games.

I don't understand what you are saying. But yes it is fair to tell your husband that you are divorcing him...duh

no, that's not something that is fair to tell the husband. she needs professional help and he needs to be able to move on and be with someone less crazy.

hey, it's what i always say, Karma gets them every time !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Don't you just love it.