Christians: If you pray for a specific sign and receive it are you not called to respond?

Let me start of with an explanation. I was born with Disorder of Sexual Development. From my tweens I came to know the Lord and answered a call. In my early twenties, I grew tired of the organized church because I felt the hypocrisy out weighed the message. I have continued to live by faith and strengthen my personal relationship. Through out the past years since leaving the church and organized ministry, I have had a number of near death experiences- The last only a miracle could have saved me and I began listening more and trying to blame less. I felt and feel cheated that a doctor selected a gender for me and did not leave my life in G-d's hands and I have prayed frequently regarding this inconsistency in my life. I have now sought to fix what I feel is a medical injustice.

I prayed for a specific sign and received it, regarding the entirety of my gender and my ministry and received it- should I continue to hide because the "church" does not support it or answer the call?