What would you do if your wife said you were "once, twice, three times a f*gg*t" in front of family & friends?

If my wife did that................... dude, there's a couple of ways I might go. One would be to say "If I am gay does that make you the man of the relationship"............ but if there's a lot of hostility buried in her... I would probably treat her like a child... stare at her till it becomes uncomfortable and then say "Now that you've acted out and have everyone's attention would you like to add to your song?" or whatever..... something to REALLY embarrass her back.

Ban her from doing drugs or drinking around my family, and probably not take her around the family for awhile until she explained WHAT she was trying to do and WHY she felt it necessary to make a fool of you both like that.

Maybe she needs to get some therapy - obviously she is not thinking straight and has some pretty strong negative thoughts going on.

Commit suicide as atonement for the sin of having married such a woman - the first time itself ! Why wait for some more hurts ?

first off. wife needed a stick kick in the butt second you both need to grow-up. third be a man.

thats messed up...i probably would of stooped down to her level and said, maybe you wouldn't think i was gay if you lost some weight...then i might fcuk you...but that could always bite you in the butt later

I would get a lawyer. I would also wonder why I thought so little of myself that I would let my partner verbably abuse me.

leave her, clearly she thinks verbal abuse is ok and she won't stop any time soon