At what point in your marriage or relationship did you argue most?

We have been together 10 years married for 7....I would say during the last 2-3, since we have had kids, our relationship has gone downhill. It is hard making time for each other with such young children and my husband has lots of hobbies that take away from family time.....

When did we argue the most ? In the several months just before marriage. Even though we were best friends and knew we were making the right decision about our future, there seemed to be an abundence of issues that came up seemingly from nowhere.

Nothing we discussed in strong terms and with passion ( arguements ) has remained an issue. That is due in large measure because we are in love, respect each other, and are willing to make compromises in support of each other.

Been married about 10 years now BTW.

When we were raising teenagers. That's hard enough to do as it is, but the kids also knew how to play us against each other. In areas where one of us was a softie, the other always seemed to be a harda**. We made it through, but it was the roughest time for us. Now we only argue about which one of us gets to hold the grand babies!!

There was never a time in me and my husbands marriage that we have argued a lot.

We have always gotten along great and yea we have had some fights but very rarely.

It's true for me too and I think it's like that because when you first get together, you're just getting to know each other and trying your best to please the other person because you love them so much. Over time, your needs become deprive and you start looking for ways to please yourself and therefore you start disagreeing on things.

Ours started when we became parents (2 years) and had different views of parenting our child. It's still a problem and we're still trying to work it out. I would have to say that, that might be our biggest issue since we got married.

the 1st year of marriage. i guess getting use to each others ways and the baggage that each of us had when we married. his kids, my kids, our ex spouses were the main problem. money too. its been almost 17 years now. kids are gone. spouse have been gone. money is better. its turned out ok after alot of hard work.

when my wife had an affair, yes its still an issue although she just wants it to go away,, typical cheater attitude, yes we are still together,buuuut

woman issue, and his bad habit. :P