Is there such thing as a soulmate....or.....?

You'll have to work at it. Good relationships aren't just magical.

Find someone similar, opposites don't last together.

You have to work at all relationships, even with a soul mate they are still their own person and you cannot expect life to be all hearts and roses, this is not a Walt Disney movie where people live happily ever after, this is real life, and for a relationship to last you will always need to put in time and effort.

Each and every relationship needs to be worked on.there is no two ppl in the world who are exactly the same,relationships need compromise,honesty and monogamy

well. I think we all have more than one person who lights our fire out there, so if one turns out to be an a$$hole and the other turns out to be your gay hairstylist who ends up in jail...you will still have more options coming your way...eventually

I belive there is but that dose not mean work free

I believe there are just people you click with and people you don't...