What are the 5 - 10 things that bother you most in your marriage, in priority from most troublesome to least.

I can't really list out things, I can say, for me, not having enough sex is bothersome, and he works third shift, so we can't really spend a whole lot of time together, and don't sleep together all week, and on the weekends, we do try, however, I snore and sometimes we end up sleeping different places anyway, which, there isn't a whole lot u can do about, and I don't like being home alone on the weekend, which doesn't happen often, but i do get a little hurt when it does, especially on sunday when the week is about to start and i want to spend the evening with him, but i have to go to bed. There is a part of a person who wants things to stay a certain way longer than they can or do I think, and when things begin to become routine again, even though u know it's inevitable, ure never really ready for it. I love my hubby to pieces, though and he is a good husband, and we talk about these things, and we do the best we can to deal with them, so i can overlook the troublesome things. As I'm sure he has to as well...

We have been married almost 10 yrs, and I am 32, he is 40

1) Cheating

2) Lying

3) Double standards

4) Not accepting me for the person I am - both good points and bad

5) Telling me that we would try to work it out after already becoming pregnant with another man's baby

We were both 34 when this happened. We were married two years.

thinking his job is the only important one in our family.

not spending time with our children.

working all the time.

not helping me with housework

sex life!

I am 28, he is 29 will be married for 8 years on the 19th, been with each other since the 9th grade!!!!!!

1) being worried about money

2) the stress of only one income while i'm pregnant (doctors orders)

3) worrying about our pregnancy (it's our first baby)

i am 28, he is 26 and we have been married one year.

Nothing in marriage bothers me.