do u think i killed her ?!!...?

Honey it isn't your fault. Life is like that. From the minute you are born you are dying. Everyone has to die.

Your grandma made a choice to let you live there. She was trying to help you and sometimes older people can't tolerate things as well as when they were younger. It isn't your fault.

Whatever the reason...and it sounds like a stroke or heart problems...your grandma had those problems and they don't happen over night. They are caused by medical conditions that take years to develop.

Can you call her doctor and have him explain what she died from and why it happened? I think if you had knowledge of her condition and what caused it...you would rest easier.

My grandparents raised me...and when my grandpa was dying he told me this...and I think you should do what my grandpa told me.

When you think of me ...say a prayer for me. I will be in your mind because I need some prayers and need you to remember the good things about me. Remember I love you and want to be with you and I will forever be at your side. So remember...when you think of me...I am thinking of you too.

Your grandma would not want you to think it was your fault. You are grieving honey....and grief makes you think weird things and they can be twisted !

Just say a prayer and know that grief does not last forever. You have to allow yourself to forgive yourself. You did nothing wrong!

I am praying for you.....please be kind to yourself. OK?

well i know it is hard i had the same thing you need to talk with a person you trust and love perhaps a best friend forever so after that you really get to get over it or you might die of paranoia i hope NOT! cause my bff told me that if you keep thinking of these stuff you might go crazy!!!and live in a hospital but you need to put the sad memories you have about her in a box and put it in a the Attic and show the good memories go out with friends make some parties read magazines dance listen to pop music not sad ones ! i really want to help you so this is the best i can want some more just go on and add me ! let your house be clean open the curtains go out to the beach go factories .....etc enjoy your life you really didn't kill her but i think she will be happy for you if you got over it and when i'm saying get over it doesn't means you forget all about her that shows you are desperate..

You poor thing, dont be so hard on yourself. Thing like this happen, people grow old and pass on. You did everything you could, by taking her to doctors and having her check out. They told you she was fine.

You did NOT kill her.

If you did all that you say by taking her to the doctors and trying to get her help then there is nothing more you could have done. stop feeling guilty you sound like a very good grandchild. also try and talk to your mom. i'm sure she could make you feel better.G/L

michelles right.

u just think u cudve done something and since u didnt she died

but really, these things r meant to be, and it must have been meant to be, because if u think about it, if it wasnt meant to be, you would have done something.

hope u feel better and i will pray 4 u and ur family :)

No, you did not kill your Grandma. You have been given some really good answers and I Just want to to know you are in my prayers and God bless you.

NO. YOU DIDN'T KILL HER. even if you called the doctor, your grandma probably would've died anyways. it is NOT your fault. anyone would've done the same thing in you situation

hey!

it wasn't ur fault at all!

it was no ones fault!

it was just her time to pass on!

yes maybe this will teach to be more sympathetic to others and not so self centered.