Did anyone ever make a move on you....?

Not really a friend but more of an aquaintance. A lady asked me to take her across town and my wife was cooking so my wife told me to go on. While returning the lady asked Are you straight? I replied that I was pretty straight. Then she asked if I ever cheated on my wife to which I replied No. Then she invited me to her home. I dropped her off and told my wife to never allow her in our house again. I explained her questions and my married daughter got quite a laugh over it. My wife was just hurt because she had opened our house to the lady when she needed help.

Yes when I was first married my father-inlaw made a move on me and so did my husbands friend and I told them right up front no way back off or I would tell my husband and that set them straight. I never told my husband it was just forgotten about and never happened again.Now that Iam 55 and working with young people I work in a bar cooking I told my daughter not even men my own age hit on me anymore not that I was such a hotty its just that it use to happen but not anymore not that I want it to its just weird or sad I guess, I guess I know Iam getting old oh well life goes on.

I learned a long time ago, that IF you didn't want some guy "hitting" on your wife, then LEAVE HIS ALONE !!

Having said that, I can tell you that I NEVER messed with another man's wife (or any other woman for that matter), HOWEVER, a neighbor (PSYCHO !! ) accused me of messing with HIS wife.

THAT WAS ABSURD BECAUSE, FOR STARTER'S SHE HAD A FACE THAT COULD STOP A CLOCK !

GOD, SHE WAS UGLY !

That screwball beat the s h i t out of her when he got it in his head, that she and I was messing around while he was at work.

Then he decided to come after me to "teach me a lesson".

Well, needless to say, he LEARNED more than HE TAUGHT ! and after they pulled my 9 out of his a**, they locked his sorry butt up, and threw away the key.

(They should have locked that crazy wife up too but for some reason, they didn't and she moved away while he was in the slammer and didn't leave a forwarding address!)

A couple of years later, we moved to another state, and the last I heard, he was still in the poky.

Yes it has happened, I suppose to all of us and I also didn't say anything. I handled it and just said please i don't want to ruin the friendship you and my husband have so i will not tell my husband, but you and your wife will no longer be able to visit our home. I just didn't want for him to come to my home and if that meant i was not going to be able to be friends with his wife, that was the price of his stupidity. It happened two other times but not with his friend but friends of his brother, To one of them I said "What am i sending you a message that is saying I like you in some way" He replied "No but it does not hurt to try" I said your a jerk" The other guy had the nerve to ask my sister in law if I was faithful or if i would consider cheating. Some stupid men out there.

I never said a thing to my husband.

yes a number of times i just handled it with no fuss,didn't happen again BUT ,after our separation, they really came out of the wood work!! mainly from where u least expect it eg the perfect ,hard working ,church going family man ,no one would have believed it ,least of all the wife.

i can't help but wonder if monogamy is really much more than an ideal ,the majority of males play up ,and women are catching up .not saying some couples aren't loyal to each other ,but realstically it's not a majority.maybe times haven't changed that much, and in the past they covered their tracks better.

Yes, the first time, I went home and told my husband that his married friend was coming to the house while he(my husband) was at work.I told my husband, and he was really hurt as he considered this guy a "best" friend. We set up a recorder on the phone since he was also calling me to talk and invite me to meet him.Once my husband had the recording, he went ot his friend's house and confronted him. Of course, he denied it, and his wife and him both said that I was the one moving on him.Now, if anybody moves on me when they are aware that I have a partner, I handle it myself anyway I see fitting at the time.Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

When I was 74,three years ago, I was an extra on a movie set. This gentleman had been on set with me on other movies, and had started talking to me. At this particular time I suddenly "fell in" that he was actually flirting, and was, in his round about way, asking me out.

I made a joke of it, in a nice way, and turned it around as being "our" laugh of the day. From that point on he just smiled when we met, and put his intentions in another direction. My daughter was on set with me, and forever after, if ever we saw him on the street would remark "There's Mum boyfriend. Quick Mum lets cross the streeet". Humour always helps in any situation and laughing WITH the person, is the kindest and easiest way to deal with it. As long as they are not TOO pushy, that is.

Yes, but how good of a friend this person really is to my husband by making a move on me. I never told my husband about it, but I took care of the situation myself. The adage comes to mind, "With friends like that, who needs enemies."

I told the guy that if he wanted to keep his anatomy to back off and fly right. I didn't have to mention it because the guy did. He said he just wanted to test me. Well he is no longer a friend of my husbands. I would have when I found a funny way to say it. I get angry just thinking about that particular idiot.

In the past when I was married I did have guys come to the house that were suppose to try to put the move on me. But it was not a free will type of thing. It was my now X husband that was putting his co-workers up to it. He was trying to find out if I would cheat on him or not. It was kind of funny in away because every one of them that he had sent to the house never would try anything with me. They would have small talk with me at first (if you will) then they would tell me what he had put them up to. They told me that with them having small talk with them, they knew by what I said back to them that I would not cheat on my husband.

Come to find out, my X husband was cheating on me all the time and wanted to have an excuse for cheating on me. So he thought if he could catch me cheating on him that he had would have his excuse. Well when all this came to a head, I divorced him as he was not only a cheater but he also was very abusive to me and my kids. So glad that he is out of my life and for good now.