why is my ex not speaking to me but making an effort to stay friends with his othere exes?

Im sure you care about his life in all but really what will you gain from talking w/ him especially now that he's married?? will you be most greatful and honored to have your current beau's exe whom he once loved in the picture?? i dont think so. Things happen in life that we dont agree w/ and most times you wont understand or get an explanation. So i guess you cant just wait around and wait for things to happen in your favor whether you like it or not. maybe his prev ex's had somthing more to offer later than when they were an item and just maybe you were the one true love and he cant just be your friend w/ out having a romantic relationship w/ you. so cutting you off completly is best for both of you. So now you have to ask yourself, why did we break up in the first place? Why do i want to continue speaking to him when he's clearly moved on? Will i show him a different side of me so that he will possibly want me back? What are my intentions of wanting so desperatly to have his friendship right now? ...

Why do you even care?

You're sad because you're not on the 'Women Some User Asshole Has Treated Shitty But Stays in Touch With So They Can be Used Again As P*ssy on the Side' list?

He has no respect for women but you keep crawling back to him.

That says a lot about you.

He's married, and you need to get over him. His wife probably isn't crazy about him being friends with an ex, especially the most recent ex. Unfortunatley, she takes priority in his world, and if he respects her, he's going to listen to her concerns (which from the way you sound, are probably valid). There are many other people you can be friends with - go find a new one!

Well arnrt you nosey! I would say who cares that lazyness is just what it is ... Lazyness and selfishness go as 1 in the same . Maybe he doesn't like you and doesn't want to be your friend.

How many ex's does this guy have?

LMFAO!

Why do you even care? I do not understand some of you women at all!

As always, I agree with Man Yogurt.......

He's trying to upset you on purpose because he likes that type of thing , sounds like a jerk to me. You should seriously cut off all ties with him and everyone else involved with him. Sounds to me like he is trying to keep you around as a laughing stock , I have been there don't let him do this to you.

Let it go, he has moved on and so should you, besides having you as a friend my creat conflict in his marriage, so if you really care, then why would you put him in that situation?

Let him be, he has found his queen, now you go and find your king.

This is something that is a way of life. Sometimes people don't want to be your friend and as adults we just gotta deal with it.

maybe his wife is insecure about you being as though you were the last g/f. she may think he still has feelings for you and don't want him to speak with you and he agreed.

doesn't sounds like you need to give all your time and attention to him if he is not talking with you..after all, he is an ex who is remarried