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Do guys like chubby girls or skinny?
im a slightly chubby girl and i don't think any guy likes me ive been told i have a pretty face bt will any guy ever like me even if im overweight? or is it all ohysical?
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46 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
i know exactly what you mean. i'm 5'2 (and a half) and like 170lbs. i always get told i have a pretty face...never anything about my body.
i think it depends on the guy. and on yourself. if youre not comfortable with your body, then guys definately wont be. decide what you do like about you and find ways to emphasize those aspects. confidence is sexy. it took me a long time to learn that.
i finally met the perfect guy. he always finds ways to make me feel beautiful. im pretty sure i could gain another 50lbs (not that im planning on it) and he would still tell me that.
dont worry about your appearance, there is someone out there for everyone. as long as you are happy with yourself noone else matters.
- 1 decade ago
It really depends on the guy as men are attracted to physical features. Almost all guys want a pretty face but other than that it really depends on the preference.
Some guys look for boobs while others look for a butt, then there are guys that are very attracted to eyes or a girls voice even. One of these physical traits will be noticed first of course then other traits will be noticed afterwards. It can be complicated. One answer is not really correct as some men like big boobs, some like them smaller and the same goes for weight.
I know a few very skinny guys who like short chubby girls. So it really depends on the guy. If someone does not like you because of your weight then they are not worth your time.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
i'm kind of chubby and i've been told that if he is really interested in an actual relationship he will pay attention to your personality more than anything, rather than being interested in sexual stuff and paying attention to your body. but since you have a pretty face i'm sure you have more of an advantage than a slightly less good looking girl (sorry that may seem confusing but i didn't want to sound rude) with a great personality. so you're pretty and probably have a great personality. if any guy is not into you because you're chubby then he obviously isn't worth dating.
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- 5 years ago
This is totally fine it does not matter what the person your dating looks like or what you look like. The most important thing is to date someone you really like and enjoy spending time with. You shouldn't just date someone because you like there looks. And you shouldn't not date someone just because other people think they are chubby or something. All that matters is whats inside :)
- 1 decade ago
Both!
Fat on the word of God.
Skinny on the things of the world. Hehe.
God looks at the heart.
Man looks at the outward appearance.
Too much anything is not good.
The "more", never enough, somethin else.
But just what is needed- perfect!
Depends what you want guys and others to love and desire most about you? Your heart? Or else? You just being you? Or for the image and shell you reside within?
Don't conform to the world (society).
Just be >you<.
Just breathe.
If you let others decide who you should "be", who will you be (in the end)?
Why even ask?
Do you have to ask permission to...
just be you?
If you be anything else but you, who are you trying to appease, impress, deceive, seduce, conform to?
What are you selling, and who do you want to buy?
You get what you choose.
And what you advertise/display, is what you'll attract.
Depends if you just love, and just seek love.
Or if you seduce, and seek to deceive and/or be lusted upon.
People see you as you see youself.
People accept you (eventually) just as you consistently are.
But then, is to live for the acceptance and approval of others why you have breath?
Me? I prefer >>> 1 Peter 3:3Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. 4Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight.
So I can >>> Ephesians 5:25Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26to make her holy, cleansing[b] her by the washing with water through the word, 27and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.
PS: But my pref? If to focus only on the physical? Skinny, slim, no flab whatsoever is most appealing/desirable. Just what I am, but less. Plus, how can I save her from a burning house or etc if I can't even carry her?
PS2: Plus, "over"weight is a sign of too much. More than what is needed. Greed. Excess. Never enough.
Ever wonder why sugar diabetes seems to becoming an epidemic? All because of the "more". All those extra flavors. All the more gratification and pleasure. Though many people, especially women, use food to cope on.
Source(s): http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?book_id=67&ch... http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesi... - VixenLv 51 decade ago
My bestfreind is Chubby and she has a gorgeous face and let me tell you she gets more guys then me im skinny and very pretty also but she just knows how to talk with guys and she just has that personality like me i guess thats why were bestfriends :) and dont worry about it just be fun and bubbly chubby woman are just as gorgeous and i think men like chubby woman Alot! :)
- 7 years ago
It depends on the girl, but overall I prefer a girl with curvature. I don't understand why women feel the need to make themselves pencil thin. Be yourself ;)
- 1 decade ago
Sure, I'm sure guys will like you. :)
It is harder for chubby and fat girls to get someone to like them, because the norm is physically fit of thin girls. Of course people will like what is perceived to be attractive. I guess it's hard for guys to like chubby or fat girls, as their relatives and their friends will probably joke about it at first. Guys like it when their friends appreciate the girls they're dating. They're just naturally competitive like that.
However, I honestly believe that confidence helps a lot. There are chubby girls who are more appealing than really sexy girls because of their confidence.
- 1 decade ago
Alot of guys like girls that aren't skinny. Pretty face is really important and if you got it then a guy will come to you eventually :) good luck!!!