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I'm 23 years old, live on my own (for 6 years now) in a apartment. I'm a Gemini female by the way.. My Aries boyfriend is 31 and owns a house.. We are moving in together on February 1st!! We get along very well and we are both into the same things and we respect each other but how do you deal with living with a Aries man, how are they when it comes to living together relationships. As a Gemini I sure can keep up with my Aries man but is there any pros and cons and things to do when you feel it is to overwhelming..!? I'm excited but I just want to know what to do in certain situations if issues come up ya know.. & no I don't base everything off astrology everybody is an individual but you must admit the personality traits of Gemini woman & Aries men can be VERY INTENSE

I'm 23 years old, live on my own (for 6 years now) in a apartment. I'm a Gemini female by the way.. My Aries boyfriend is 31 and owns a house.. We are moving in together on February 1st!! We get along very well and we are both into the same things and we respect each other but how do you deal with living with a Aries man, how are they when it comes to living together relationships. As a Gemini I sure can keep up with my Aries man but is there any pros and cons and things to do when you feel it is to overwhelming..!? I'm excited but I just want to know what to do in certain situations if issues come up ya know.. & no I don't base everything off astrology everybody is an individual but you must admit the personality traits of Gemini woman & Aries men can be VERY INTENSE

I personally don't care if you are into astrology/horoscopes or not I just want you to answer this simple question for me. Do Virgo men like to show affection? If so how? Do they kiss passionately or just pecking / simple kissing? How does your virgo man show you affection and also state his Birthday as well. That will help a lot. and be SPECIFIC / PRECISE Please. How is it living with a Virgo man?

I was in desperate need for money (Rent issues) and needed $300 dollars ASAP. So I went online on a dating website and found this guy to give me the money.. At first he was Skeptical about giving me the money but then he felt bad because I kept giving him reasons on why I need the money so he gave it. I gave him my phone number he contacted me and we talked on the phone for about 45 minutes. The next day he took the bus and came to my apartment (he has a car but his car was in the shop getting fixed, that's why he took the bus here) as soon as he got here he sat on my couch and Email transferred me the money with my email address. We didn't have sex or anything, I have proof over text messages and over the internet dating site claiming he will give me this money.. as soon as he left my house the car shop called him and said they are ready for him to pick up his car with the payment of $200 so he called me on his cell phone 10 minutes later asking for $200 Dollars BACK! Just so he can get his car out of the shop... I didn't trust it. What's mine is mine. So I refused to give it back to him because he gave it to me. Why after JUST 10 minutes you want it back just to pay your car? Didn't make sense to me.. Anyway now he is calling my cell phone threatening to call the police and say I STOLE his money and I am trying to commit crime.. But if I have all this proof why would he do that? Won't it just back fire on him, or will I sincerely get in trouble? I am not really scared because I was the one in need of $300 and he gave it to me so am I wrong? Or am I supposed to give him back the money he GAVE to me? Can I get in trouble with the law? I don't have any criminal records and I don't plan on getting any.. Please help what is your input!?!??!

I was in desperate need for money (Rent issues) and needed $300 dollars ASAP. So I went online on a dating website and found this guy to give me the money.. At first he was Skeptical about giving me the money but then he felt bad because I kept giving him reasons on why I need the money so he gave it. I gave him my phone number he contacted me and we talked on the phone for about 45 minutes. The next day he took the bus and came to my apartment (he has a car but his car was in the shop getting fixed, that's why he took the bus here) as soon as he got here he sat on my couch and Email transferred me the money with my email address. We didn't have sex or anything, I have proof over text messages and over the internet dating site claiming he will give me this money.. as soon as he left my house the car shop called him and said they are ready for him to pick up his car with the payment of $200 so he called me on his cell phone 10 minutes later asking for $200 Dollars BACK! Just so he can get his car out of the shop... I didn't trust it. What's mine is mine. So I refused to give it back to him because he gave it to me. Why after JUST 10 minutes you want it back just to pay your car? Didn't make sense to me.. Anyway now he is calling my cell phone threatening to call the police and say I STOLE his money and I am trying to commit crime.. But if I have all this proof why would he do that? Won't it just back fire on him, or will I sincerely get in trouble? I am not really scared because I was the one in need of $300 and he gave it to me so am I wrong? Or am I supposed to give him back the money he GAVE to me? Can I get in trouble with the law? I don't have any criminal records and I don't plan on getting any.. Please help what is your input!?!??!

I was in desperate need for money (Rent issues) and needed $300 dollars ASAP. So I went online on a dating website and found this guy to give me the money.. At first he was Skeptical about giving me the money but then he felt bad because I kept giving him reasons on why I need the money so he gave it. I gave him my phone number he contacted me and we talked on the phone for about 45 minutes. The next day he took the bus and came to my apartment (he has a car but his car was in the shop getting fixed, that's why he took the bus here) as soon as he got here he sat on my couch and Email transferred me the money with my email address. We didn't have sex or anything, I have proof over text messages and over the internet dating site claiming he will give me this money.. as soon as he left my house the car shop called him and said they are ready for him to pick up his car with the payment of $200 so he called me on his cell phone 10 minutes later asking for $200 Dollars BACK! Just so he can get his car out of the shop... I didn't trust it. What's mine is mine. So I refused to give it back to him because he gave it to me. Why after JUST 10 minutes you want it back just to pay your car? Didn't make sense to me.. Anyway now he is calling my cell phone threatening to call the police and say I STOLE his money and I am trying to commit crime.. But if I have all this proof why would he do that? Won't it just back fire on him, or will I sincerely get in trouble? I am not really scared because I was the one in need of $300 and he gave it to me so am I wrong? Or am I supposed to give him back the money he GAVE to me? Can I get in trouble with the law? I don't have any criminal records and I don't plan on getting any.. Please help what is your input!?!??!

I'm 22 years old, and he is 24.. He cheated on me when I was 8 months pregnant and left me for the woman he cheated on me with. My son is now 3 and a half and his father took me to court about 8 months ago.. WITHOUT TELLING ME. It scared the **** out of me because I pretty much breast fed and cooked and cleaned and did almost everything alone especially when he was a baby.. He was never a bad father so I am not here to bad mouth him.. But he scared me and got a lawyer in court.. I represented myself.. I live alone, I'm on assistance and he works and has a house with his girlfriend. His lawyer told me that it is the best interest of the child if he goes with him.. and he lied onthe court papers and said everything that was FALSE Exept for ONE thing that was true. He put my son in daycare without my permission and it looked good on him in the courts, he is now living with his father full time and i get him on the weekends or every other weekend. The woman that he is cheated on me with.. OUR SON CALLS HIM MOMMA... I told him as a father it is wrong of him to accept OUR child to do that and he said I shouldnt worry because our son is smart and that he knows I am his REAL actual mother so IT DOESN'T MATTER. I snapped I think he is BEYOND disrespecting me and it's been 3 1/2 years I been taking his crap because I am NOT a bad mother. He even put our son in Soccer Without my consent or Sharing ANYTHING with me. Before he took me to court he was paying child support and stopped and I never asked him for a cent.. instead I aked him for groceries THREE TIMES and he refused.. only one time he gave me 50 dollars to get groceries. I think he did this so he wouldn't have to pay child support and wouldn't have to be worried. I never did ANYTHING to him I don't get why he is making my life a living hell.. I want EQUAL rights.. I am the mother and I always share things with him when I have our son. sometimes when it is my time to have the weekends he will say he has work at 5 in the morning or says our son has a birthday party to go to or SOME SORT OF STORY just so he can miss the weekends with me.. And when I threaten him to bring him to court to solve this mystery he says oh well you miss A LOT OF weekends with OUR son and it would be HIS FAULT because he always comes up with some sort of story. (I have my mother as a witness).. Anyway my son is with me now and he will be coming for him tomorrow morning.. I wish I can just not have to open the door but he threatens that he is the REAL parent just because of the papers.. he is taking advantage and Little do the COURTS Know that he is manipulating and a HUGE liar and a bad father.. because what father keeps a child away from his mother and causes his own child to call his GIRLFRIEND momma it's wrong.. and I don't know how to go about this. And the only reason he won in court is because he got his lawyer to scare me and I agreed to weekends.. and I now REGRET this.. Please help me.. I'm at my wits end.. He can't even cook.. my poor child is always asking me for cookies and hot dogs and I am big on Organic eating and a healthy meal plan.. My son SHOULD be with ME FULL TIME and with his father for the weekend... His father works FULL TIME AND GOES TO SCHOOL. I work at home.. There is no reason for this.. and he put a television in our 3 year olds room at HIS house..and he spoils him with toys so much that sometimes my son says mommy i want to go to daddys house because i want to play with my toys... He has LOTS of toys here but "Better" toys at his fathers house appearently.. He is teaching our child to be materialistic and causing him to be used to not being with me... I sometimes feel not important although I do know my son loves me very much... But this is all wrong and I don't know what to do to change it...?!?!?!?!

I'm 22 years old, and he is 24.. He cheated on me when I was 8 months pregnant and left me for the woman he cheated on me with. My son is now 3 and a half and his father took me to court about 8 months ago.. WITHOUT TELLING ME. It scared the **** out of me because I pretty much breast fed and cooked and cleaned and did almost everything alone especially when he was a baby.. He was never a bad father so I am not here to bad mouth him.. But he scared me and got a lawyer in court.. I represented myself.. I live alone, I'm on assistance and he works and has a house with his girlfriend. His lawyer told me that it is the best interest of the child if he goes with him.. and he lied onthe court papers and said everything that was FALSE Exept for ONE thing that was true. He put my son in daycare without my permission and it looked good on him in the courts, he is now living with his father full time and i get him on the weekends or every other weekend. The woman that he is cheated on me with.. OUR SON CALLS HIM MOMMA... I told him as a father it is wrong of him to accept OUR child to do that and he said I shouldnt worry because our son is smart and that he knows I am his REAL actual mother so IT DOESN'T MATTER. I snapped I think he is BEYOND disrespecting me and it's been 3 1/2 years I been taking his crap because I am NOT a bad mother. He even put our son in Soccer Without my consent or Sharing ANYTHING with me. Before he took me to court he was paying child support and stopped and I never asked him for a cent.. instead I aked him for groceries THREE TIMES and he refused.. only one time he gave me 50 dollars to get groceries. I think he did this so he wouldn't have to pay child support and wouldn't have to be worried. I never did ANYTHING to him I don't get why he is making my life a living hell.. I want EQUAL rights.. I am the mother and I always share things with him when I have our son. sometimes when it is my time to have the weekends he will say he has work at 5 in the morning or says our son has a birthday party to go to or SOME SORT OF STORY just so he can miss the weekends with me.. And when I threaten him to bring him to court to solve this mystery he says oh well you miss A LOT OF weekends with OUR son and it would be HIS FAULT because he always comes up with some sort of story. (I have my mother as a witness).. Anyway my son is with me now and he will be coming for him tomorrow morning.. I wish I can just not have to open the door but he threatens that he is the REAL parent just because of the papers.. he is taking advantage and Little do the COURTS Know that he is manipulating and a HUGE liar and a bad father.. because what father keeps a child away from his mother and causes his own child to call his GIRLFRIEND momma it's wrong.. and I don't know how to go about this. And the only reason he won in court is because he got his lawyer to scare me and I agreed to weekends.. and I now REGRET this.. Please help me.. I'm at my wits end.. He can't even cook.. my poor child is always asking me for cookies and hot dogs and I am big on Organic eating and a healthy meal plan.. My son SHOULD be with ME FULL TIME and with his father for the weekend... His father works FULL TIME AND GOES TO SCHOOL. I work at home.. There is no reason for this.. and he put a television in our 3 year olds room at HIS house..and he spoils him with toys so much that sometimes my son says mommy i want to go to daddys house because i want to play with my toys... He has LOTS of toys here but "Better" toys at his fathers house appearently.. He is teaching our child to be materialistic and causing him to be used to not being with me... I sometimes feel not important although I do know my son loves me very much... But this is all wrong and I don't know what to do to change it...?!?!?!?!

Okay I have loved this man for over 8 years since I have known him since I was about 11 years old.. I am 22 turning 23 next month (Gemini oh yeah!!) Anyways my cousin is about 26 years old and he is now 28 years old. They have dated yeaaarrrss ago when I was about 10 or 11 and she was a teenager when she was with him she was about 16 and he was 17 (I'm an only child, so I use to go to my cousins a lot when I was younger and he would ALWAYS be with her) I was always honest, even since I was young I told him straight up that he is cute and i want him for myself and that I wish I was older so that I can be with him, I use to tell him this all the time and I even told my cousin about this so she was aware of this for yearrrsss. Now she is married and has kids, I have a son but me and his father have shared custody, and he has 2 daughters and is single like me. I NEVER loved a man in my life EVER, I didn't even say the words I love you to my sons father . Fact: you know when you are a teenager and you go through that "I love you phase" with your puppy love boyfriends? Yeah, well... I never said I love you to ANY MAN but HIM!!! hes on vacation right now and will be back on Sunday.. I was talking to him and I expressed all my feelings to him and he feels the same way about me and now that we are mature enough to be together we will be seeing each other when he comes back. BTW! MY COUSIN IS AWARE OF ALL OF THIS AND SHE SAID SHE IS OKAY WITH EVERYTHING IN FACT SHE DOESN'T EVEN CARE AT ALL LITERALLY!! He even told her as well so I know his and my feelings are mutual for each other.. Yes he is 6 years older then me but so what, my ex boyfriend was 26 no big deal. Do you think I should go for it I mean he really is the only man I ever loved and probably will love.. I mean.. Why do I still have these feelings for him still til this day? It must be fate no? Or should I forget it because he is my cousins ex but still it was years ago.. I don't know what to do? But my personal feelings are telling me to go for it.. Please help!!!!! ps.. hes an Aquarius and Gemini + Aquarius are *Perfect Love matches*............... What should I do please help..!?!??!

Okay I have loved this man for over 8 years since I have known him since I was about 11 years old.. I am 22 turning 23 next month (Gemini oh yeah!!) Anyways my cousin is about 26 years old and he is now 28 years old. They have dated yeaaarrrss ago when I was about 10 or 11 and she was a teenager when she was with him she was about 16 and he was 17 (I'm an only child, so I use to go to my cousins a lot when I was younger and he would ALWAYS be with her) I was always honest, even since I was young I told him straight up that he is cute and i want him for myself and that I wish I was older so that I can be with him, I use to tell him this all the time and I even told my cousin about this so she was aware of this for yearrrsss. Now she is married and has kids, I have a son but me and his father have shared custody, and he has 2 daughters and is single like me. I NEVER loved a man in my life EVER, I didn't even say the words I love you to my sons father . Fact: you know when you are a teenager and you go through that "I love you phase" with your puppy love boyfriends? Yeah, well... I never said I love you to ANY MAN but HIM!!! hes on vacation right now and will be back on Sunday.. I was talking to him and I expressed all my feelings to him and he feels the same way about me and now that we are mature enough to be together we will be seeing each other when he comes back. BTW! MY COUSIN IS AWARE OF ALL OF THIS AND SHE SAID SHE IS OKAY WITH EVERYTHING IN FACT SHE DOESN'T EVEN CARE AT ALL LITERALLY!! He even told her as well so I know his and my feelings are mutual for each other.. Yes he is 6 years older then me but so what, my ex boyfriend was 26 no big deal. Do you think I should go for it I mean he really is the only man I ever loved and probably will love.. I mean.. Why do I still have these feelings for him still til this day? It must be fate no? Or should I forget it because he is my cousins ex but still it was years ago.. I don't know what to do? But my personal feelings are telling me to go for it.. Please help!!!!! ps.. hes an Aquarius and Gemini + Aquarius are *Perfect Love matches*............... What should I do please help..!?!??!

I'm 22 years old (young mom) hes my first child me and his father have shared custody (we are not together). So when he is at his fathers house I don't know what his father feeds him.. I live on my own and I am big on cooking, I love it and I am really good at it. My son use to eat EVERYTHING I cooked until recently.. ever since he turned 3 it's like he gets pickier and pickier by day and I don't get it the stuff I cook he use to eat and now he won't eat it he prefers snacks, or hot dogs or cookies.. the only thing he won;t turn down is chicken he loves chicken but vegetables and and other stuff like pasta he HATES What child or even adult hates Pasta? He use to eat it.. now he won't I don't know what to do anymore and I hate forcing him to eat things he doesn't want to eat what should I do? btw he use to love my cooking now all of a sudden my son changed up on me why?

Okay I am 22 years old and I am a Gemini Female (May 26 is my birthday) I met this guy and he is also a Gemini born (May 28) he is 23 years old. Okay first let me say this.. I have always told myself I would NEVER EVER EVER EVER Date a Gemini man because of the way we are in general it would be TO MUCH! Literally! I don't care how good looking they are! I had a couple Gemini man chasing after me in the past and I ignore them as if they don't exist.. and obviously that's the worst thing to do because that's what we Love!! WE LOVE TO CHASE! instead I should of acted interested and then I would of got rid of them even FASTER Meh! Anyway. I can get along great with this guy, and he is so generous (of course that's one of our wonderful traits).. and hes nice and cool and laid back and he thinks a lot like me witch gives me my personal space to take him in and observe him. Anyway I LOVE IT! And I am considering dating him witch is a HUGE Surprise to me.. Should I date him and give it a try or is this a big nono!! ??????? I just can't believe it's a GEMINI ahahahhaha! lolololol XD

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I am 22 years old and I live on my own in a apartment (Hydro is included) so I don't pay extra for that, I just pay my rent amount and that's it. I do hair perfectly I can roller set perfectly probably better then salon service (no joke) and after sitting under the dryer I blow dry hair straight or use a hair straightner but I only use Dominican Products. I do my own hair and get complimented alot and also do my friends hair since they know i am perfect at it.. I was thinking of working from home and charging 20 dollars to wash and style hair ( I WILL NOT BE CUTTING, PERMING, COLOURING, OR USING FAKE HAIR) Since I am not qualified to do that. Is it a good idea to do this from home and make a little cash to pay for my hair school that I should soon be attending once I make the money for it ($3,000) because this is something i really want to do and i am confident will work great. I do not have a hair license but I plan on getting it soon (I live in Canada) Toronto, Ontario.. I was even planning on making personal business cards to give out to friends and family!?!?

I am 22 years old and I have a 3 year old son, and my boyfriend (26 years old) has a 10 month old son (he is not my child, it's his ex) Anyway, my boyfriend has been stressed out lately his son has been in the hospital for 6 days and they said he has a Low white blood cell count and he also has low iron and he also has Pneumonia.. Do you think the baby will be okay?

My boyfriend (26 years old) lives in Tampa Bay, Florida. I (22 years old) live in Canada (Toronto, Ontario) I am a Canadian born and raised here. He is American. I will be going to Florida in February.. How long can I stay in america with my passport? What if I decide to move there with him permanently what are the steps? If we get married will it be easier for me? Or can I just not get married, and just go through the paper process.. how long is the process? Would it be approved? I need all the information with detail and be specific. Thanks in advance.

My boyfriend (26 years old) lives in Tampa Bay, Florida. I (22 years old) live in Canada (Toronto, Ontario) I am a Canadian born and raised here. He is American. I will be going to Florida in February.. How long can I stay in america with my passport? What if I decide to move there with him permanently what are the steps? If we get married will it be easier for me? Or can I just not get married, and just go through the paper process.. how long is the process? Would it be approved? I need all the information with detail and be specific. Thanks in advance.

I am 22 years old (Gemini) and he is a 26 year old (Aries).. I don't know what to get him for Christmas. We also both have sons.. I have a 3 year old (who is currently in Mexico for vacation with his father) and he has a 1 year old. Should I get him and his son a Christmas gift like matching shoes or t-shirts, or should I just get my boyfriend a Christmas gift only? (we have been dating for 4 months now) What should I get him !?

I am 22 years old (Gemini) and he is a 26 year old (Aries).. I don't know what to get him for Christmas. We also both have sons.. I have a 3 year old (who is currently in Mexico for vacation with his father) and he has a 1 year old. Should I get him and his son a Christmas gift like matching shoes or t-shirts, or should I just get my boyfriend a Christmas gift only? (we have been dating for 4 months now) What should I get him !?

I'm a Gemini Female (22 years old) and my Aries man is (26 years old). I been dating him since October 8 (the first day I ever met him) so we have been dating for about 3 months now.. we made it official about a month ago.. Anyway he calls and texts me Every single day.. and does Not miss a day! Anywhere he goes I am pretty much there with him, he takes me out on dates and if hes going to hang out with his friends he usually takes me with him, It's like were lovers and friends at the same time. Of course as a Gemini I can put up with him and he can put up with my crazy random Gemini traits. we got into a argument 3 days ago at my place and he said some mean words to me and said hes breaking up with me and he left my house. this happened on Tuesday night.. and we haven't spoken since! But... he did send me a text last night saying sorry and asking if i was okay and he said he was really upset with me but he isn't upset with me anymore. I didn't send him a text back.. because I know Aries men like a chase and as a Gemini I can provide that great chase for him plus I have alot of feelings for him but I don't want to push him away so I am not going to text or call him.. What's going on? What does he want? Does he still have feelings for me? Details please? Why wont he leave me alone? ( although I don't want him to, I just want to know why.. curious typical Gemini) Only good answers please, thanks in advance.

I'm a Gemini Female (22 years old) and my Aries man is (26 years old). I been dating him since October 8 (the first day I ever met him) so we have been dating for about 3 months now.. we made it official about a month ago.. Anyway he calls and texts me Every single day.. and does Not miss a day! Anywhere he goes I am pretty much there with him, he takes me out on dates and if hes going to hang out with his friends he usually takes me with him, It's like were lovers and friends at the same time. Of course as a Gemini I can put up with him and he can put up with my crazy random Gemini traits. we got into a argument 3 days ago at my place and he said some mean words to me and said hes breaking up with me and he left my house. this happened on Tuesday night.. and we haven't spoken since! But... he did send me a text last night saying sorry and asking if i was okay and he said he was really upset with me but he isn't upset with me anymore. I didn't send him a text back.. because I know Aries men like a chase and as a Gemini I can provide that great chase for him plus I have alot of feelings for him but I don't want to push him away so I am not going to text or call him.. What's going on? What does he want? Does he still have feelings for me? Details please? Why wont he leave me alone? ( although I don't want him to, I just want to know why.. curious typical Gemini) Only good answers please, thanks in advance.