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Becky
Lv 4
Becky asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 1 decade ago

My bf's sister is in the hospital..idk what to do.?

I'm feeling so many emotions right now i really just want to cry..well..i'm already crying, but I just want to like...do something..anything...but I want to sort out my emotions first. Well, my boyfriends sister is in the hosiptal because her body rejected her kidney..and she's away at college...so he's going up there...and I really don't know what to do..and i can't stop crying. I'm angry because I feel selfish for crying because I didn't get to say goodbye to him and I'm pissed off that he left because he is going to miss too much school..and I'm sad and worried for Kayla. I don't know what to do..is it wrong for me to feel kind of neglected..I mean..he just texts me..and doesn't explain anything to me..I'm really freaking out and need someone to talk to..but I don't know who to call. can anyone help me please?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    girl, you need to calm down and get yourself together. freaking out will not help the situation. stop texting your boyfriend for awhile. he's confused too right now. give him time to absorb what happened. guys tend to get silent when they are trying to deal with things. when he gets it together don't worry he will contact you. just give him some space and stop smothering him. maybe you can contact his mom for more information about Kayla's condition.

  • 1 decade ago

    Talk to a friend or a family member.

    Right now your boyfriend's sister needs him, and he'd be a terrible person not to visit her.

    You should not be feeling neglected or pissed. She could very well, die, and so wallowing in self pity is not going to help.

    Family always comes first.

    Calm down. Freaking out will make the situation seem worse than it actually is.

    Plus, he may be too grieved to explain the situation properly. Don't give him a hard time, she's his sister.

  • kim h
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Calm down and take a breath. You should not be mad at him or feel neglected. She needs him and he had to go. What kind of man would he be if he did not? He might not know much yet to explain to you. You know the basics and that is probably all that is known right now. Being sad and worrying about her is normal. I would not give him a hard time about this.

  • 1 decade ago

    OMG! Have a heart! If your boyfriend is ready and willing to sacrifice his own situation to be with his sister in a very grave and traumatic time I applaud him. You should do your utmost to be supportive to the two of them at such a critical time. After all I assume that your are at least somewhat healthy. You should sit down and reflect on the situation as a whole.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Rather or not you believe it or not, family should come first and this is his sister.. so get a grip and stop being selfish.. theres nothing u can do right now but you've gotta be strong for your bf...

    call him and talk to his sister maybe that will help you feell better

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you can stop crying everything is going to be alright and give him a call and say bye then

  • 1 decade ago

    its normal to feel the way your feeling,, if it makes you feel any better, i was crying the other day for nearly the same reasons! chin up girlie! :)

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