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POLL: would u let ur bf/gf go clubbing without u..?

coz i leaning more towards 'NO'....

its not that i dont trust him, i dont trust the girls...

or maybe i dont trust him... i dunno!!

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  • Lacy
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Let him go. He's the one you need to trust, not the girls. If he's committed to your relationship it won't matter what the girls do. Taking away a guy's space and not wanting him to do anything or go anywhere without you is a pretty good way of losing him. If you don't trust him, take a minute and ask yourself why not? The answer may surprise you.

  • 1 decade ago

    It depends, is he going out with other guy friends or just going without you? If its just with his friends it shouldn't matter. Good relationships are built on trust, and you don't want to make things uncomfortable like that, it creates bad feelings and its hard to erase those emotions. Maybe you're just feeling a little bit jealous at the thought of him looking at other girls, or other girls looking at him. Being confident is the most important thing. If what he wants is other girls, to hell with him anyways right?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    when a girl claims it's because she doesn't trust the girls, I think that's a bunch of crap. My girlfriend uses that excuse every time if she doesn't trust me. She even hacked into my msn and spoke to a female friend of mine. Look at it this way, let him go. If he cheats on you, at least you know now he was a scumbag. If he doesn't cheat, then he's worth trusting. Hope this helps

  • YES: I for one allow my wife to do what she wants when she wants, because I TRUST HER. Refer to the end of your statement. YOU DON'T TRUST HIM. I mean really you shouldn't trust other girls, but how many other girls can out drink your man and trick him into bed? or muscle him into bed? What? NONE? WOW? There is nothing they can do to force him into anything. You know this, it has nothing to do with the women. Learn to trust and you will be fine, if you can't trust move on.

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  • 1 decade ago

    yes I agree but once you start not LETTING him do stuff it will get old really fast. You should give him freedom no matter how much you don't like him doing things without you. Expect the same!

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, I would.... I don't care about the other girls.... I trust him....

    Don't really not trust the other girls.. they mean nothing to me or him

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes, I would have to be an insecure loser not to let her. Anyway, its a good way to find out your significant others true colors.

  • 1 decade ago

    haha,thats our biggest prob.but i gotta say YES

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