is my man cheating? again?

I think you're asking to be hurt again, honey. You've known him for a couple yrs. now, he used the lame excuse of not seeing you enuf & that's why he cheated in you. He not only cheated on you, he lost his virginity to her in the process. I honestly do not think he's the rite person for you, & for a couple reasons. First, now that he's had a "taste" of sex, or course he's going to want that from you too. That's pretty much a given. Are you honestly ready to give up your virginity to him? I also think that would be one thing he would be holding over your head in a way that if you don't "give it to him" he'll find someone who's willing to do it w/him. The second reason is your age. Yes, you're only 3 yrs. apart, but he's going to find more girls at his age who are willing to "put out" for him because they've already "done it" & won't give it second tho't to do it again. There you are again, left flat by him & this time for the simple reason for sex. You wouldn't want him to leave you again for that, AND, I sure wouldn't want you to give in to hm just for the sake of keeping him to have him turn around & cheat on you again. I put in one of my other posts that I do NOT believe once a cheater always a cheater. But for some reason his age & the fact he's now sexually active, I'm being honest in telling you I DO believe he'd cheat on you, honey. Please keep your innocense & do NOT give it up for him. He's really not worth it. Stick w/kids your own age, & you'll be much better off. You know you're able to get bofriends, so I'm totally looking out for you & your own good. Think hard about what I've said & I trust you w/make the rite decision just for you. Take care of you & make the rite decision...:)

Your boyfriend will probably cheat again. Geez you guys are really young to be dealing with this stuff.

Enjoy being a kid and have fun at school. You'll have the rest of your life to worry about dating. Don't lower your standards just to get a date. Check out the links below and learn about chastity.

Look for a guy who is chaste and respects you. Be sure to visit the link about safe sex and STD's.

Sex - When Are You Ready? - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJwp0s60b5U

If We're in Love, is Sex OK? - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vXuH-x8r8MY

About Safe Sex - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEILo8ljT5M

Why Chastity? - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UOKlBs9Tdjc

What is Chastity - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BZajdR6Q-Lw

More About Chastity - http://www.youtube.com/bostonrespectlife

Pure Love Club - http://www.chastity.com/

For the record - I am 25 years old and I converted to the Catholic Church 4 years ago after watching EWTN. Before watching EWTN I didn't know the meaning of the word chastity.

Learning about chastity really helped me have greater respect for myself as a woman. Anyone can practice chastity, at any age, married or single. It's never to late to be chaste and it doesn't matter what happened in the past. I practice chastity and I plan on giving my virginity to my husband if I ever marry.

First of all.. it's not you fault that he cheated.. Woman always look for reasons to blame themselves when a man strays...he wanted to have sex with someone else and he did.

If you two aren't having sex, arent you worried he will stray simply because he wants sex and it's not happening between the two of you?

A relationship with no sex is called FRIENDSHIP. If you are just friends, he can't be cheating on you now can he?

I really don't mean to be rude, but a 14 year old is not a man. A 14 year old is not a young adult. A 14 year old is not a teenager. I'm sure your "man" cheat on you and others for a long time to come.

Your 14. Stop it. Why would you want some guy who's sluting around. If he's done it once he'll do it again. Your too young to worry about a guy. Have fun with your friends and concentrate on school. Life's too short

Whoa, that is young. Isn't it against the law to have sex at your age? For him at least? Guys that young are learning the field, and tend to be players. Yeah, if he cheated once he will do it again. He is too young and immature to play by the rules yet.

good for you not having sex! i am proud of you, that is all boys want girls for--

even though they lie.

anyway he will try just tell him not until you are married , the right way.

yes i think he will cheat again

please leave him

sadley yes.

once cheater is always cheater..

14 is still young age. dont rush. just let him go.

coz you deserve better

good luck

Yes. He will. And he will probably end up knocking some girl up and ruining her life, so get rid of him now, and please be on some sort of birth control.

would you have felt better if she was white? you're too young. you shouldn't date until you're over 16 or until you're more mature.