Guy Problems- I need your HELP!?

I don't think you missed out. The guy probably still likes you, unless of course you were like "hell no!" when he asked you out. But I imagine he still "likes" you. You need to hang out with him, like go to a movie or something; just you and him. Flirt with him, warming up those feelings that made him ask you out in the first place. Then tell him how you were just shocked when he asked you out before, but you changed your mind. Tell him you've always been curious what it was like to kiss him. Kiss him, then I would pronounce you two an item. Remember, you don't really have much to lose and only a possible bf to gain.

I would just be honest with him. Bring it up to him that you were really taken back when he asked you out??? That you don't think that you gave him the right answer because you were shocked about him asking you. That you would like to get together some night if he is still open to it.

I guess if he sprung it on you, you really didn't have a choice but to say no, but there's no right time to ask a girl out, either the opportunity is there, or it's not.

You're going to look a bit stupid, flirting with him again after rejecting him. Besides, for a lot of guys asking a girl is out is one of the hardest things he'll ever do, and to say it out of the blue is even harder.

I don't know, ask him out, I guess.

Just bring it up one day! Be like you know last __month___ when you asked me out....if the offer is still up i'd like to accept it or something along those lines!! I have no idea how your "guy friend" acts or his personality so you really can't tell! Good Luck! ☻ d[-_-]b

Just tell him that him asking you out shocked you but it made you think about it and now you can't get him out of your head and you're wondering if it might actually work. :) That's what I'd say.

The title of your question drew me in. I totally empathise with it right this second. I'm having total mental issues with my bf right now. X__X

I think that you need to talk to him, and tell him that you regret not saying yes. He may tell you that he's 'moved on' and that, that was then and this is now...so know that this may happen and be prepared for it...Good luck sweetie x x x

Easy dont beat around the bush,, talk to him and tell him or you might miss the chance again. Goood lucck x

just ask him and give it a try and see if he still feels the same way about you.

yep just go give him a kiss!!!!