Poll for the guys-what would you want your wife to dress up as?

Why would I make a snide remark? By the time I was your age, I had 3 children and one on the way. ::lol::

I know how important nights like the one you're planning are... And I commend you for getting the awesome jacuzzi suite! ^_^ Of all of the past events in my marriage, this is probably the closest I have to a regret... not once in all of our 10+ years of marriage did we ever *do* anything for our anniversary. I never really spoke up about it bothering me, and I never actually *asked* him to please take me somewhere for a weekend even, and it resulted in our 10th anniversary coming upon us without him even realizing it. I can't help but think that perhaps, had we done what you are doing now, it would have been a little different.

Anyhoo, as for what you should wear... At one point I was at my heaviest (although it was not due to pregnancy; I always worked my @rse off to lose the baby weight, but I struggled with an ED and that screwed up my metabolism royally, resulting in a massive weight gain once I started eating again), at over 150 lbs., and unlike you I am *NOT* tall (I'm only 5'2" ::lol::), so it was hard for me. It took *months* of exercise, staying active, and eating right to drop 30 lbs., and I have to be extremely vigilant if I want to maintain my weight. So anyhoo, I know what it's like, and so my advice is based upon what I would wear for my husband at that time... ^_^

There of course are the suggestions made above... the schoolgirl, nurse, etc.. However for a more romantically seductive evening, there were two outfits that I wore that drove him *insane* with desire, that complimented my heavier weight and (most importantly) accented my *CURVES*. ::grin::

The first sexy little outfit he (and I) loved was a black corset that had a matching lace thong... the waistband of the thong was a 3" circle of lace, so it was flattering for women who were not stick-thin, and the corset laces up to slim and flatter a fuller figure. There is no way that any woman of any weight can wear a corset and *not* feel sensual and sexy.

Btw, the two styles I wore were this one:

http://www.fredericks.com/images/5/51248_61_lrg_fa...

and this one:

http://www.fredericks.com/images/5/51786_34_lrg_fa...

I practice corsetry, and to be honest the best corsets I have found outside of the ones that are custom made are the ones at Frederick's of Hollywood, which is where I bought the corset outfit(s) I was just referring to. If you match it with garter belts, thigh-high black stockings and heels, it makes for an extremely sultry outfit. ^_^

The other outfit was not something many places sell anymore (I found mine on eBay; it was Vintage NWOT), and it was an actual peignoir négligée set. It had the slip-style under-dress (the négligée), like this:

http://home.comcast.net/~spencer_d/beightop.jpg

...and the sheer, silken peignoir, that went over it, so the whole thing looked very much like this:

http://www.ssb3.net/users/95549/medwhite1.jpg

Mine also was white, and was from the 40's or 50's if I remember correctly. The whole outfit was so amazingly beautiful... and remember, back then women were considered thin and gorgeous at what is now a size 10 - 12, so their lingerie was cut to flatter and accentuate this body type... not the half-starved idea of beauty today.

Between those two, my husband could never decide which he liked more, and both drove him crazy. ::grin::

I hope that helps! Remember that confidence is the sexiest thing a woman (or man) can wear, even if all you have on otherwise is your wedding ring. ^_~

And happy 5-year anniversary! May you see many, many more together.

\(^_^)/

Maybe something funny-sexy would work. Nearing Halloween now costumes are easy to come by and I've seen a lot of fun, sexy things. There's always the classic French maid or nurse's uniform. But if you don't want to do that then hit Victoria's Secret for a nice, pretty matching set. I'm sure he'll mostly be interested in getting you out of whatever you're wearing anyway. :)

My husband is less into authority figures and more into the female role being submissive so I would say anything like a Secretary, a maid, lonely neighbor, etc...

We've had lot of fun with me being a plumber (lol) ot a doctor/nurse.

Typical guy stuff, you know.

My husband seems to prefer pink lingerie. Just get out to the store and see what you feel sexy in...guaranteed he'll love it if you do.

Well you really can't go wrong with anything here. Something as simple as some sexy matching underwear would be great or something as out there as a pleather cat suit lol. He will love whatever you are in.

But I will say, you definitely cannot go wrong with the whole schoolgirl outfit. Thats always a winner :)

hate to kill the mood here but we would need to know whats your body shape like.

Lingerie outfits work better for women who are in good shape, one that covers more are better for girls who have some imperfections.

Try dressing up in an outfit that you had on your first romantic evening together.

Nurse, police officer, some sort of authority figure, etc.

Trust me, we men love the idea of being used against our wills.

This is what I have asked my wife to wear.

Nice white blouse with short black skirt, no panties for easy access. Black crotchless hose, with 3 to 4 inch black heels. So I can play while we are at the table.

Surprise him with the no panties. Slid his hand up your leg so he can discover on his own

My Wonder Woman costume seems to be a hit.

maybe Erin Esurance... heck, she already has the pink hair.