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Rita
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Rita asked in Arts & HumanitiesPhilosophy · 1 decade ago

Do you choose love or does love choose you?

Your heart always knows you cannot deny this it truly is what YOU choose do you agree or disagree?

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    I choose love for love conquers the dark parts of my soul. Even if the other person or persons don't choose love, for some reason my heart will choose love irregardless! It hurts at first when love is not reciprocated, but as I realize where this person or persons are coming from, forgiveness and acceptance settle in this soul of mine and I continue to choose to love.

    Through the changes in my life and as I grow older, I realize there is no hate in me. The challenge is to know someone can genuinely love you just as much as you can love them.

    Peace.

    Amanda

    Source(s): Lover of all people, but not sure if all love me with the same vigor.
  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    You Would Choose Love Money may buy a little happiness, but not the happiness of true love. You rather have a true soulmate than a private jet. And while many people may claim they would choose love too... You're one of the few who would really do it.

  • Oleg B
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Innocence never choose love, they are Love. Logistically innocence is not choosing anything...and cannot do it..and it praised most in all manuscripts of old. So your question is valid for vast majority and irrelevant among a few.According to your intensive curiosity of a great seeker you rather see yourself among those few...no? It possibly may happen some day after you drop an idea of choosing anything...

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Every individual is their personal arbiter of "Love".

    Love is really a personal and private entity. Learning to Love requires exceptional self development and enrichment. Intellectual growth facilitates and monitors how an individual becomes conscious of introspective affection.

    Devotion to growth is demonstrated in achievement and goal activities. Others may be inspired by the manner of display. Education and enrichment enable communication or exchange of knowledge.

    Partners of affection or Lovers are mutually sensitive to romantic concepts and sensations on the basis of personal experience.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I disagree, You cannot choose who you fall in love with, its just something that happens, whether over a long period of time, or really quickly. You can choose whether to ignore the fact your in love but it will still be there. you cant make it go away either.

    If a boyfriend or girlfriend hurts u really bad, you may hate them for whatever they have done but you will still love them.

    So, to conclude, you cant choose who you fall in love with! And if you fall in love with someone that you dont want to, you cant make it go away!!

  • 1 decade ago

    All I know is that my heart belongs to Jesus and I cannot deny this. I choose Love.

    I don't understand what you want me to agree to, so I won't answer that part of your question. That's why God invented grammar and punctuation.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Love encompasses at least 3 separate (and not equal in all people) facets.

    1. Emotional

    2. Spiritual

    3. Physical

    Your reference to "heart" suggests your in the emotional facet and one's heart often dims reality, so you are left with you choose love.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I actually think that Love chooses us because it kind of just happens when we are least expecting it. If we go all out looking for Love, maybe we are 'overdoing' things and may make the mistake of thinking what we want to be true. Whereas, if Love finds us then perhaps it was fate..

  • Ciara
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Well, love chooses you in one sense..overtime you can gradually fall for them but that can be because you spent so much time with them youve gotten to know them abit more, making you fall in love.

    So, im going to have to say...love chooses you but If u spend time with them then you chose them (or if u have to choose between 2 people) but at the same time your heart decides if you fall for them regardless of if u spent too much time with them.

  • 1 decade ago

    Love was there before you, love will be after you. Love chooses you before the beginning of time, but you don't know it until you accept it. If it is true love, it can't be destroyed nor defined. It just is.

    Source(s): I believe in Jesus Christ, the ultimate example of love. Jesus loved the world so much, that he died for it. (Life is beautiful)
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