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Atheists! What was your path to (non)belief?

For me, I was raised by a protestant father and a catholic mother, although religion wasn't a big thing in my family. We went to an evangelical church occasionally, and my sister and I were required to attend a Christian summer camp for a few years.

The camp did a pretty good job at putting the fear of god into me. (Looking back on it now it was a little strange: We would be woken up at five AM, attend lectures, sing praises, and bible study until 2PM. Free time until around 7 when they would pull us in for more preaching and bible study until we went to sleep. I now lovingly refer it to as Camp Gitmo. ;) )

As I got older I started questioning what I had been taught, and received the usual negative reactions from theists. I started thinking myself as agnostic as the more I learned in school and life didn't coincide with what the church said. This lasted through my teens.

Finally as an adult I realized I couldn't keep up the lie anymore. I admitted to myself I was an atheist. It was so very freeing. Best of all my family never give me grief about it, and my friends are cool too. It's so funny.... after I started talking about my nonbelief, my father and some of my friends pretty much said they were agnostic to the whole idea of a god. They just never really wanted to say anything, because they were afraid to offend someone. It’s nice to have an open dialog with them now. I wish I had done it years before.

Anyway, so what was your path to atheism? Did you grow up in an atheist home? How do your friends and family react?

(P.S. I do expect some douche-y answers from some hard-core theists. It’s cool. I just feel a little sorry for them. It must be really hard to live with that much anger inside.)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    The birth canal. Like all babies, I was born an atheist.

    I was raised in a Christian home, and read the Bible cover-to-cover multiple times. Fortunately, the brainwashing attempts were NOT successful.

  • 1 decade ago

    I was raised Catholic however my mother was a pretty lame Catholic who cared more what the neighbors thought than about the religion. The nuns were abusive, the priests told me, a lst grader that I was going to hell because I missed church occasionally, the sadistic bastards. I quit in the 6th grade. After having children, I got involved again, hearing that it had been a little bit reformed, but my heart was never in it and I didn't see much reform. The inconsistencies were still there. No point in staying. I just don't believe.

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think I had a path, the closest I ever came to religion was going to churches for Christmas eve when I was a child and maybe for some funerals and weddings. I have just never been able to believe that there is some kind of God, I find it much more logical to accept evolution.

    All of my friends are atheist or agnostic, my mother is a christian woman but we don't discuss our beliefs.

  • 1 decade ago

    I was never very religious, and my belief in god was more a default stance based upon what I was told, but even then I always questioned it.

    To sum it up, the biggest catalyst was when I had the epiphany that it's *okay* to have a default stance of admitting ignorance given uncertainty. I quickly realized that people believe in god not because of evidence, but because of desire. I realized that this was no way to discover knowledge. And I'm unwilling to sacrifice truth for the sake of comfort.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Right after I became an Adult, and went through 2 years of boarding school and was told to read the Bible every day.

    After that, I haven't been to a Church, or read the Bible, and then lived with my super religious Mother and super religious Aunt and just became disgusted.

  • 1 decade ago

    I was raised in a Wiccan, single-parent home. Had a rough (traumatically so) childhood. I remember being about 9, and telling this lady at school, a counselor probably, and she told me that Gos had a plan for me, that the sh!t I went through was because God wanted me to. I'd been agnostic for a few years, but after that, there would be no God for me. At about 17 I became a Satanist, and I've never been happier!

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    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    I was born an atheist to atheist parents and atheist grandparents (although my paternal grandmother was once a christian).

    Pretty much all my friends are atheists and most people where I live are the same. So no one reacts at all. It's the religious people who have to "defend" themselves at times here.

  • 1 decade ago

    Despite what goes on in your crazy country (I'm guessing you're from the US), most people who live in developed countries e.g Australia/Europe are born into atheist/agnostic households and are raised that way.

    This is one of the reasons America has gone to the dogs. Has anyone realised that within developed countries, the occurence of fundamentalist religion correlates very well with the levels of violence, crime and lack of proper education...

    This aside, I'm happy things have worked out in your family.

  • 1 decade ago

    Muslim father. Christian mother. I was a huge reader of both materials, which led me to comparative religion, Joseph Campbell, philosophy, psychoanalysis (notably symbolism) and so many wonderful things. It just makes sense to me.

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