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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 1 decade ago

????HOW DO I STOP FIGHTING WITH MY SISTER?

I need help i can't stop fighting with my sister and i always get the blame because i am the oldest

NEED HELP

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    PLAN A___

    IGNORE the pest. IGNORE it. Like I said, I'm not being mean. PEST = P.E.S.T.

    P - Planning to keep away from her

    E - Every day IGNORE her

    S - Sit down ALONE

    T - Time to yourself/other family

    Ignoring means to pretend she's a brick wall. Go on, do it. It makes you feel way better than punching her in the face. It's very annoying at first but when you see her walking away, that smile comes at an instant.

    PLAN B____

    If you smell a fight coming on, walk out of the room, or during dinner, talk to another family member PLEASANTLY. Ask them about their day. That'll leave your sister fuming. I know I did.

    Another way was to when she was yelling at you, say "Shh, ___<- insert name here, be quiet, you know mum doesn't like a yeller" really softly. I nearly pissed my pants in rage when my sister did that to me, but there is no comeback!

    PLAN C___

    Talk to your parents and explain it wasn't you. I'm sure they'll understand. If your sister goes all angelic, say "what did you do this afternoon." The parents will tell her to answer the question. She'll spit it out.

  • 1 decade ago

    be more patient with your sister. It's not because your-are-the-older-one-case but because your sister may still be immature to understand most things.

    Remember you still have plenty of years together, through thick or thin you are eternally inseparable. Family will always be there. Again, have patience and try to be a little more understanding.

    You fighting with your sister is something you would probably laugh about in the next years to come.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    1. Consult a dog trainer. They can be immensely helpful, especially since the dogs are still pups and just learning about life, etc. 2. Get an air horn. Every time they start to fight, blast them. Soon they'll realize that to avoid the air horn, they'd best not fight. It's so hard when one of their favorite games is to play-fight. It reminds me of a family of boys in our church. They don't know how to play except to tackle people and wrestle them to the ground. Lots of times, someone gets hurt. Wrestling like this with each other is okay, but the rest of us are not amused.

  • 1 decade ago

    Me and my sister used to have a fighting problem too.

    It really depends on your ages i guess, because me and my sister just really grew out of the fighting thing.

    But when you get mad at her, just take your anger out on something else. instead of yelling at her, go in your room and yell into a pillow or something. And then justtalk it out with her.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Plan your responses ahead of time.

    You know the kinds of things you fight about. So, think about what you could do differently when she provokes you.

    Don't get on your high horse because she did it to you first, or she was bad so you have a right to be bad. You have the older brain, so use it to your advantage. She manipulates you into fighting with her; You should manipulate her into not provoking you.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have 2 younger sisters, so my advice is to just ignore her when she gets on your nerves. It's hard, but its easier to deal with than fighting all the time.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't talk to her. Give her the silent treatment for about 3 days! She'll see how much she needs you. Next time she does something bad to you, Just be like "you know what, im not even gonna talk to you anymore", see how that works out

    my little sister strted crying after an hour, she promised not to do "that" anymore! it worked for me!

  • 1 decade ago

    If your sister just trys to annoy you, or says something just to get you fired up, ignore her. It will drive her crazy because her plan doesn't work. If it is a different situation, tell your parents maybe they will entertain her.

    Source(s): I have two sisters....
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    My sister and I always fight and I do not know how o control my anger towards her.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    With sibs there's always fighting, just try not to get angry when she anoys you.

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