Do family members have requests you may wish to respect when purchasing holiday gifts?

Interestingly enough, two of my family members have made requests. My mom, who cares for my grandmother, has asked for time. She would like her children and grandchildren to spend some time with her. Or she would like us to care for my grandmother while she takes a break. My sibling has asked for gift cards, saying that it will be easier and more convenient for his spouse and children. And while I intend to give my mom time, I have already purchased tickets to a sporting event for my sibling. So their family can enjoy time together.

I have family members that did that when I was new in the truth, most of the time the just forgot, and some, well, one would, as you said, intentionally say, do, or invite me to something that I have told them repeatedly that I will not do. But, they just think that you have lost your mind, and don't understand why, even though you have explained it to them countless times, you feel the need to stay clear of things you have found that would displease Jehovah. When I have a family member that I know will argue, I just leave it alone, and just let them have their say, unless I need to defend myself. But if I know that the family member will discuss it, I will discuss it with them. Remember that when two people are arguing, no one hears the other. So an argument is pointless. A debate is on the other hand a good way to point out some truths to them.

I find that gift giving should be of something that YOU wish the other person to have, not something they are requesting. I find that putting conditions on gift giving, takes away from the true meaning.

I usually buy gift cards now. We don't see our niece & nephew that often & their tastes change so fast at their age. This way, they can buy what they want.

I agree with doofus, what about the kids wishes.

This is really whacko. never heard of something so stupid in the holiday season. why don't you just block them. you are good at that.

i guess not being a parent i am practical -- i think it is a great ideal -- my self every one get money from me-- in a plain white envelop!!!

I know how I would feel about THAT if I were one of the kids,,,