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Do most girls care whether or not a guy already has a child from a previous relationship?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    it depends on the situation and the girl but i think that most girls, if they really like you, will learn to love your children. and if they don't then i don't think that they are worth it. but that is just my personal opinion.

  • 1 decade ago

    Absolutely! And if they tell you they don't care, they are either lying to you or themselves.

    We all want the same thing from a relationship, to be respected, loved and to feel like we are the most important person in your life. That can never happen when you have a child. The child needs and deserves your undivided attention, but so does your relationship.

    You need to date someone who also has a child, that way you are both giving equally to your children and your relationship.

    Trust me, when only one has a child, the relationship suffers!!!!!

    Source(s): My own experience!!!!!!
  • 1 decade ago

    To me it doesnt really matter.The way I see it is if a guy has a kid or kids from a previous relationship then it shouldnt matter as long as he is being responsible.(big turn on to see a man taking care of his own) I personally am dating a guy with 2 children from a previous relationship and personally have two of my own and we are getting to be a big happy family.

  • Inay
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    i dont think so....what is important is now and your future together ... it is not the childs fault.. the child has no choice.

    she or is but a child...she/ he must be catered with love...and more so by her new mother or father....so it is up to you to choose your partner...whether she or he accepted your child... child is child...give her respect and love and she will do in return....children is not a problem....the problem lies with the adult...

    so if ever a guy has a previous child..be open enough and trust your partner to be on this matter..dont fuse and learn how to listen......

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  • 1 decade ago

    It depends on the girl, I think when you reach a certain age group it is next to impossible to find someone who doesn't have a child.

  • 1 decade ago

    i used to until i was in one, its alot of drama but that was because she still liked him, but if the parents are JUST parents to the child then i cant say that i mind, i wouldnt not date someone i liked cuz of it, also depens on the age of the child too,its easier when the child is younger, they tend to open up to u more.

  • 1 decade ago

    well some do.

    but really most dont. because they feel oh he is so responsible.

    so its like 50/50 or 20/80

  • 1 decade ago

    most girls do care... i dated a guy with 3 kids and everyone told me WHY??? r u crazy?? when infact it didnt bother me.. just when you have a crazy baby mama to deal with like i did... u start to go insane and want to smack dat H0e!

  • mo267
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I am the girl that thinks it matters VERY MUCH!

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