I have lost both my parents within a span of 52 days. I am very- very sad .Kindly advise how to reconcile. ?

i can empathise with you.it is really tough but see life is a voyage and people depart when their innings is over.they will re enter your life in some other form.god be with you.try to find some old couple who are staying all by themselves and transfer your love and affection to them.don;t lose heart.take care of your self.

Dear Nuke,

I know it's hard to deal with the loss of a loved one. It was devastating to me when I found out that my Dad had died, even though I had seen him not too much before that and I knew that he wasn't going to last much longer. When it came time for the funeral I wept bitterly all alone. I didn't know how much I needed him until he was gone.

In your case, though hopefully you have made friends with other people in your life to fill the space that your parents will not be able to fill now. SO seek out those in your circle that can do that. But only if they are willing to do so. Try your best to stand on your own. Your parents hopefully did the best they could to raise you to be independent and noteworthy in life. So keep your head up shoulders back eyes straight and show those around you what they did do for you. From now on you are the product of your parents. Make sure you let people know that they were good by your actions towards others and you should do just fine.

So far as grieving goes, get as much love from other family members because they will be your strength. Brothers and sisters are great so far as listening and just being there. Sign songs, play games, and remember the good times you had together.

Good Luck and God Speed.

First of all, very sorry to know about the major losses in ur life. Losing parents is losing very important mentors from ur life. But being a realist I would say that, u should now pray for their soul to rest in peace. U cannot get them back now, so instead of thinking about ur loss, start thinking what all expectations ur parents had from u and how u can fulfill them and make their souls more and more happy. Now work on ur future and concentrate on ur work, if u r a student then concentrate of ur studies and if u working then concentrate on that. Build ur future! And be careful, this is one of the weakest point in ur life, dont let people around u take advantage of it and u get into a loss.

My dear, My condolence

See people are worrying and become disheartened when theire dears and near expires. Humanly it is quiet normal. But once when we understand who we are, from where we are and what is our karmic philosophy, then we will not feel that worry.

Just ask this question yourself "Who Am I". Is this body? are those organs? the answer will be a big No. Then who am I. I am the driving force that is sitting as a driver in this body. I am (atma) a soul. Soul is a very tiny point of energy sitting in the centre of hypothalamus. When the atma (soul) live in a body we can call it as "Jeevatma". When the atma leaves the body we used to say that phenomena as "Death". But you have to understand that just like the actors are changing the dress according to their character roll to be enacted, atma changing the body (leaving one and receiving another one) according to the "Karmic Philosophy". Karmic philosophy is the reward of our actions from our previous births. Therefore one person who enjoys the fortune in his life is not because of the mercy of God and another one suffer in his life is not because of the curse from the God. He is receiving the reward of his previous birth actions. What I mean to say is no body dies. They are just changing the dress in order to enact their character roll in this world drama cycle. So don't worry. If they have pending karmic account to settle with you, definitly they will take birth around you only. Thatz why it is saying that "Maa Mare tho bhi Halwa khana hai"

Ohm Shanti (I am a soul, a peaceful soul)

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad on September 18th, 5 days after his 55th birthday. I can't say that i know what you're going through but I can say that, no matter how hard it gets, i'm sure that they would want you to keep going. Each day will get just a lil bit easier. Just take it one day at a time, one second at a time if you have to.

Please allow yourself time to grieve and grieve as long as you feel you need to. I still miss my Mom and she passed away 16 years ago!! I'm no longer sad when I think of her, I feel peaceful becuse I cherish the good memories. I've accepted the fact that she's gone in body, but she will never be gone from my heart and mind. If you need to cry, CRY...! It will help ease the pain of losing them. Take one day at a time and one day you will wake up and find that you are able to cope. Don't give up on yourself, you will be alright.

Times heals every pain ... i think for sometime you should leave your current place and move to some other peaceful place ... or else the memories of your parents will keep on haunting you and will make you more depressed ... i know its difficult but with time you will surely get you over it ....

am really sorry yar,, :( .. i was in tears when i read ur msg,, if you have enough money, (financially stable and i am talking about your own money) then provide food clothing and education to 2 poor children in your dad n mom's name,,i suggest you to search for that poor children ,,(PLZ dont go by charity centers n all) ,

i know they wont come back:( but if you do the same then you can see your parents happiness in the childrens cute smiles,,

I am very sorry for your great loss. I think you need grief counseling.

too sad.That's life with its uncertainties.Do as others manage on your own.Muster courage from the faith you must be attached to!Good luck.