I think my son is abusing my grandchild. What can I do?

My parents abused me and my grandparents did know. My grandparents did nothing when they could of. DO SOMETHING! I hate my entire family and have nothing to do with ANY of them (including distant relatives like grandparents).

Either contact the social services, or contact his school and arrange a visit. There will be someone there that you can talk to and give you good confidential advice.

This is a very difficult time for you but be assured there are people who will help, if you are not satisfied then contact the Police, sometimes they can be really helpful and know exactly what to do.

I hope all goes well for all of you, don't let anyone put you off follow it through for the sake of your Grandchild who is unable to fight for himself.

Well, depending on how severe the signs are, you may want to contact child services, or consult your grandchild's physician. They will be able to give you more appropriate information based on the circumstances.

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you need to make it clear to your son that you really need to talk to him. You need to find a way to grasp his attention. You need to spell it out to him that you are concerned and that if he doesn't explain himself, you will reffer to third party for help. Let him know that you CARE about him, that you LOVE him and you don't wont neither of them to get HURT. Explain to your son that this is important and that you're only there to help. If he refuses all of that listed above, you need to talk to his church minister, or someone who is very close to him. If that doesn't help either, you need to call abuse hot line.

it depends on if by abuse you mean a spanking or if you mean beating the hell out of him if its a spanking i would ignore it if he is beating him i would tell him that if he didn't stop i was gonna have to call cps and take the child away because no kid should be abused but unless your son was abused he probably isn't abusing his kid

I'm sure your community has a social services department and a Child protection service. IF you have a phone you can call them.

Report him to child services (as far as i know you will be anonymous you can check into that), that way if something drastic ever did happen you will know you tried to prevent it, or if your concerns are true your grandson will get the protection that he needs.

Wheres his mum?

REPORT him, your grandson deserves protection.

babysit for him and look at the dhild .if you see any signs of abuse call the police. dont allow this to go on another dayor it maybe to late