Extended Breastfeeding question?

To answer your question about if she is getting any milk, I would say yes she is. It takes longer than a few days for your milk to dry up. Maybe it isn't coming as fast/heavy as before, but she is getting something.

I recommend http://www.kellymom.com/bf/bfextended/index.html for additional information regarding breastfeeding a toddler (and weaning if that is what you want to do).

For the evening one, can someone else put her to bed for a few days? If you're not tucking her in, she won't even think about it. The 5 am will be more difficult, as you are probably nursing her in bed and falling back to sleep together. You will need to be prepared with a cup of juice so she can have a little drink.

Explain to her that it is time for her to stop nursing. Then when you go back to putting her to bed at night, you'll remind her. When she wakes up early in the morning, give her a drink from her cup and then cuddle with her. At one or two times per day, it will go quickly and smoothly.

Even if she's not getting anything, she's probably just accustomed to the bonding time with you, which is great! Maybe you can replace it with a new routine, like a glass of milk and a book together before bed?

First off i would cut her off cold turkey and let her cry it out, shes not an infant shes going to be 3yrs old. I couldnt imagine having a child (cause shes not a baby) nursing. If you have been breastfeeding sinse you had her i am sure she is getting something to answer your question.

it's okay to start weaning cuz she is no longer receiving nourishment -that comes from her solid food diet. consider holding her more often for cuddling time with your shirt & bra fastened.