Are all little brothers problem cases?

First of all, my two younger brothers are wonderful and always there for everyone! Since this isn't the case with your brother, I'm so sorry! No matter what happens, remember that he's your brother, though! At least he's showing up for this meeting, and be as polite as you can. Hopefully, he'll see that he can confide in you. If not, just let it go! I mean, it will be HIS LOSS for not having such a great sibling to confide in! Sorry about the issues, and I hope the future improves!

Well the question is, was he like this before?

if so, then it is work, the partner and life's quirks. Its something everyone goes through in life. eventually we break away, and well, move on with our lives. I hate that fact, wanting my own family coming together, but that is how it is.

If hes married, then that explains it all, the only thing you guys can do is visit once every while and chat for maybe an hour and go home.....

If you are single, then basically it hits you harder.

I'm a little brother- youngest of 3. I'm not a problem case. So no, not all little brothers are problem cases. Just this one. And quite frankly, it doesn't matter what the birth order is- he's got issues to deal with, so you gotta deal with the issues whether he's the oldest or the youngest. Do your best, but he might just decide to shut you guys out no matter what. My dad had this kind of situation in his family too, but it was the oldest brother of three. I only met him once. Hope he talks to you. Do your best.

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