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Kee asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 1 decade ago

How can i comfort him ?....?

my bfs bro died a few days ago and my bf has been depressed lately. hes in mexico right now for the funeral...so our holiday plans r crushed. i miss him.. he hasnt called or he doesnt answer my calls. the last text i got was on saturday morning around 7. am i wasting my time ? how can i keep him ? how can i comfort him ? i do all i can. i leave voie mails encouraginghim..but it doesnt seem like enough...please help...?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    you need to let him know that you are there if and when he is ready to talk, and give him some space to come to terms with his lose. when he is ready he will call and talk about his lose with you, just keep encourageing him by letting him know you are there when he is ready.

  • 1 decade ago

    leave him alone, give him space and time

    a death in the family is very personal and also very involving... he needs some space and time with his family to grieve and begin to recover

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