A question to any woman who can be truthful?

Being quite feminine, in my particular case, it would bother me, but the truth is that if i found out it was honestly that important to a man i loved already, i would deal with it.

i would need to work it out in such a way that it stayed out of our bedroom and then i would also want to know just how far it reaches into his life, such as whether or not it involved transgender issues, but i certainly would NOT laugh or make light of it and i wouldn't bail on him either, or at least not with that as the only issue.

i think any individual female's answer to this will always depend upon her level of emotional maturity and the degree to which she is attached to the hypothetical male.

If this is you, i encourage you to be honest with your lover. And i hope that she surprises you with real compassion and empathy. We all have something that is difficult to share but authentic, loving relationships are certainly the best place to try it.

gentle thoughts...

I would not have a problem with it. Women wear mens boxer shorts and nobody seems to have a problem with that so why should it be any different for men. Some men like the feel of the fabric against their skin and this is why they like wearing ladies lingerie. If you truly love someone why should it be an issue as to what underwear they like. Also, just think of the fun you could have helping him to buy underwear. Only small minded people would have a problem.

I'd think his was going through a mid life crises or something. I'd probably just ask him was there any thing he needs to tell me before I walk out of the room. If he wanted to role play well ok what ever. Truthfully my husband would never wear my underwear. And I'd never wear his.

Well, first of all I burst out laughing at reading your question.

And then it got me thinking... Well, my man wearing my underwear?

First of all I'd hate it if it could fit, as I do prefer my man stronger, athletic or muscular.

Second of all, I just couldn't picture my man wearing laces, and worse, what would that say about him?

1: that maybe he loves me far too much. Unhealthy in my book.

2. That he might be a fetishist: equally unhealthy.

3. He may be considering having an operation or does have a secret life.

So, definitely NO!!

I'd rather he phones me regularly, text me like crazy, bring me tons of presents or make love to me every day.

Wearing My underwear is a no-no!!

Gosh, it wouldn't bother me, but I'd feel a bit sorry for the guy because all my underwear is very boring: comfortable cotton all the way! I'd go out and get him something soft and silky for himself.

I think my initial reaction would be mostly curiosity. I'd want to know what he likes about it, what it feels like, whether he has any fantasies associated with it, whether it's something that's just for him or whether he wants to share it with me, and stuff like that.

If my husband prefers women's underwear to men's, he can wear it all the time if he likes.

I don't know whether I'd find it erotic, but I'd certainly be willing to experiment a bit if he wanted to.

Id have to say, personally for me, I would not like it, as it is not inthe norm, but that being said, a reaction is not the same as sitting down with the partner and talking with them about it....and discussing the matter between the two of yous. or them.

Id probably yell out STOP IT!! theyre mine!!!!

I would probably react badly

Does it really matter what a person wears. But you guys who are afraid to admit need to step and tell the truth to your partner, better to hear it from you than to see it and be shocked.

Hmmm...interesting. Yep, I can think of some fun to have with this one. (Not in a mean way, I'm totally serious.)

People get way too hung up on all these socially imposed rules. In my opinion, if it doesn't hurt anyone (too badly, anyway), then enjoy. Don't worry about the judging conservatives--most are probably secretly jealous, anyway. ;)

I would laugh. I would laugh very loudly. I would ask them to buy their own and not stretch mine! If they had them on for any length of time, I would not want them back! Sharing is one thing, but my knickers are my bloody knickers! Yep j t has the answer in a "nut" shell.

Ha! Ha! Ha!

Imagine a giant wearing a dawf underwear.