Touchy family issue. How do I handle it?

Invite your brother and his girlfriend. It is your house. Let your other family members know they are coming. Give them the option of being cordial at the party or to not come. Tell them you really want them there and hope they can put their differences aside for the sake of the kids. I hope everything works out.

It's your party, and you can invite whoever you like.

If certain family member have a problem with it, tell them that they are under no obligation to stay, but that all you wanted was a nice reunion for the entire family.

I have no idea. It sounds like in Cambodia. If you ask this questions for cambodia society then the answer is different from western country but a little same to asia country.

Email me back if your situation is in Cambodia.

You should let the "other" family members know that this is about your kids. also that you would really would want them to be there, but they should know that your brother and girlfriend will be there. They should be able to set aside their differences for atleast one day.

its your house you should do what you feel and if your family dont like it they can leave but its your boys, they should get along if they love your children and if they have a problem they needs to put it aside for your boys birthday celebration!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope this help you, im srry if it dont

Your family should act like grown ups and accept what is out of their control. .Remind them who's day it is and if they can't accept that their not invited. Although It's probably better to stay out of it as much as you can. sorry for your circumstances.

You can invite anyone if its ur party! If they're happy with each other, then they wouldn't care about what other people think.

Tell all who is on the invitation list who is invited and tell them that they are welcome to come but not to fight or cause a scene and upset your children

your family is being selfish, tell them to live with his ex and mind their own damn business