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How many adult women here are attracted to minors? ?

Am I the only one that isn't sexually attracted to 14-17 year old boys? When I hear these stories about 25 year old women having sex with minors, my friends and I think "We sure as heck would rather go for adult men." When I see a 17 year old, I see a little boy...no matter how tall he is or how built he is. Seriously.

How many of you adult women think it's okay to have sex with teenage boys? Do you get aroused by teenage boys? I'm asking this b/c I don't think it's normal, but I want to see what other women think.

Some people are acting like it is normal, but I know adult women who have very high sex drives...and they would never touch a teenage boy.

Update:

You can objectively look at someone and say they're attractive, but I certainly wouldn't act on it.

11-13 year old girls can look much older than they are, but I would hope that people felt guilty fantasizing about them. I wouldn't buy the "Oh come on...she looks like she's 18, even though she's 12". No.

Update 2:

Just b/c you develop sexual feelings doesn't mean you're ready to do it. There are consequences.

All humans are sexual, but there is an appropriate time to do it.

I know people who started having sexual feelings at 9 or 10..does that mean they should start having sex? No.

Update 3:

Martillo-You're both adults, so there's no problem.

I know married couples who are 11 years apart, but it doesn't matter b/c they're both adults.

Now, if a 30 year old is having sex with an 12 year old..that's sick. If a 50 year old is having sex with a 30 year old, that's fine.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    How many people act like it's normal? o_O

    I don't, my friends don't, the females who like men don't, neither do the gay guys.

    When you don't KNOW his age and he looks older so you think he's like 20 or something, of course, but if we find out he's still in high school, there's an *instant* change of mind there and it becomes icky.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    Adult Women Having Sex

  • pinky
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You know, I think the old sayings "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and "different strokes for different folks" are completely true. I personally do not find younger males to be attractive but some ladies do and that's OK. I myself prefer older men- now and back when I was way too young to prefer such a thing.

    I think an age gap (even a big age gap) in a relationship is perfectly fine if both parties are accepting of it.

    I am against an adult dating or having sexual relations with a young minor though. That's just wrong. There is the gray area, like a 17 year old dating a 25 year old. I personally see nothing wrong with it even though the law does.

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm not. Not unless he is one of those mature looking guys who looks like an adult man - and even then, all I feel is "wow, handsome face!". Zac Efron? Puh-leeease. No. lol I think adult men are much more appealing.

    I don't think it's okay for an adult to be with a teenager. It's statutory rape in some places, and even if it's not they are woefully mismatched. The relationship is only based on sex. That's not good for anyone.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    When I was 19 I was attracted to a 17 year old, but now at 23 anything under 21 doesn't even occur to me. I'd rather an older man with experience any day.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I wonder how many of these answers are of free-will and free-thought and how many are from social engineering. Some people have stated that they only go for people who are x number or years older or younger than them, and anything else is perverted. I'm not saying I agree or disagree, but I do find it odd that people would state arbitrary numbers.

    My wife is 4-5 years younger than I, I was 24, she was 19 when we first got together. Is it OK when I am 4 years older than her, and am I some kind of pervert when she's 5 years younger than me? (This is based on our birthdays). Not too long ago, people were considered adults at 18, now more and more you see them acting and being percieved as mere children. Not that I'm saying this justifies relations with a significantly young kid, but I view this rigidity in how old one must be to date another based entirely on some critieria based on the right amount of years odd.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I like guys that look baby faced but not really 14-17 as I dont really see many of them around. I do like younger looking men though and always have done. I also like the older guys that look younger and the celebrities that look baby faced even though they arent that young. My husband is 6 months younger but he looks younger and I like it. I have liked it with exes to

  • 1 decade ago

    Sorry, I look at someone that age and see a child. I generally find myself attracted to men who are 30 or over, or at least look like it.

  • 7 years ago

    what kind of a question is this? i am a teenage boy, but who would say yes to this, like seriously ? if anyone was interested, they wouldn't admit it.

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