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What do you do if your child's mother never works and is constantly raising child support payments?
My x has not worked in over 10 years and because of it whenever we go to review the payments they raise mine even though my pay increase has not gone over $2, I have another child and struggle with my wife to raise the second. I give more to the child support for my first child then we can spend on the second. Is there any way to make sure that it gets balanced out or for my x to at least be made to maintain a job just like I am being told that I should so that then it would be fair whatever the payments that is directed to me for my first child are. Also my daughter has informed me that some people keep visiting the house and making her mother clean up and buy groceries ( I'm assuming its DYFS) and now my x plans to move to another state so the "people" would stop coming to the house. How do I stop her from leaving the state and how do I find out if this is Dyfs and if it is how do I find out why they keep visiting her?
6 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
get your butt in court. If these "people" have had to tel her to buy groceries, im sure she will be found unfit, or unfit for a period of time that she has to straighten her life up. Fight for your daughter, ugly moms make ugly moms its a vicious circle. If she wants to move she will need your permission, through court papers, IF she doesn't get it, she'll find herself in a heep of rouble.
- CheyukLv 41 decade ago
I agree with the first answer. Get your butt into court and ASAP. At the very least, find out if Social Services is coming to the house. You sound like you're a good father, considering that you're raising a second child AND still making support payments. Stand up for your rights and don't let the mother drag you down.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Take her to court and tell the leach it is time to go get a job. She is ridiculous and is going to have a rude awakening when the child is 18. You should also tell the court that you do not think the money is being spent on the child(ren) and that you want to set up a trustee. This ensures that every penny is spent for the kids and hopefully this will encourage her to make her own money. It seems mean, but you are not supposed to be supporting her and her habits- only the kids!
- Wyatt's mamaLv 51 decade ago
I don't the answer to your questions but this is a crappy situation to be in. I really think child support screws a lot of dads. Some end up paying so much to one women for a child and stuggle daily to support theirselves and their other children. A lot of women fight for every penny they can get even if they don't need it. It's ridiculous.
*Thought I would add, maybe you should fight for custody of the child if your situation allows. At least the child would be taken care of and you wouldn't have to pay that women to sit on her a**.
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- ribuckeyeLv 51 decade ago
why should your x have to work? it is your child isn't it? if your not man enough to take care of your children then perhaps you shouldn't be spreading your seed around. i took care of all my children and my wife never had to work. so did many many other men thats MEN not crybaby boys
