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real problem its about marriage!!!!!!?

u know in Islam man can marry 4 woman a guy proposed to me and i agreed but i feel that there is agreement between him and my collegue that he will marry her after me!!! we work at the same place, when i told him about this he denied but im sure about this cuz he trying to make me understand without loosing me , i know that he loves me but i cant live with man another woman will share with me and he dont want to let go of me , im dying every day please friends tell me what to do ??

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should just make it clear to him that you don't want to share him with another woman. If he doesn't want to talk about it then he probably intends on not being with just you. So just talk to him about how you feel not about what the rules are or whatever. I know in some cultures that is ok but you can let him know that you don't follow that and that is all you can do. Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Do you really want to be in a polygamous relationship? Don't you want to share the wonders of the world with one man? Sharing him with your friend is not an ideal situation. Jealousy and other feelings may arise. Say that children become involved, why put them through that? It's a sticky situation and it's a tough life. Find a man that loves only you and wants to be with only you.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    leave him, cause u dont want to be with another woman and a man.. Listen there are plenty of men in the sea that are islam.. Hope everything turns out to be ok..

    Goodluck sweetie

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  • Mr R
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Trust your insticts.

    Life is too short to go through it unhappy.

    Don't let yourself get trapped in a situation you don't have control over.

    Think, and look before you leap.

    If you are not ABSOLUTELY sure about getting married, don't do it.

    Islam is a whole different world when it comes to marriage, and your about to get caught up in it.

    The very fact you have to ask this question shows you shouldn't do it.

    Good luck.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    In Islam he cannot marry another woman without your permission. The religion allows it only if you are infertile, gone mad or have an incurable disease.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, don't marry a man you don't trust.

    And I really don't know anything about Islam. Nothing nice at least.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you do not share a common vision of what a Relationship is then leave him.

  • 1 decade ago

    leave him don't be in a relationship were you are not comfortable

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    b u l l s h i t

    Thats is what that is.

    Just because they "can" does not mean he should.

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