is it just destiny or is my life just full of bad luck ? why im i always sad and alone ? will it ever change ?

I wonder the same thing sometimes, but always remember it can be worse. Things will get better for you, just remain positive. Try not to compare yourself to others, thats one thing that really has worked for me.

I've lived through 4 car accidents, cancer, bankruptcy and divorce. My grandmother died in front of me on Christmas day when I was 10. Trust me when I tell you that if you want to perceive life as full of bad luck, life will make it all too easy for you.

That said, you first have to start looking at what is going right in your life. Let's see, you woke up this morning right? The sun rose in the sky...the air was there to breathe. The secret to happiness is simple, quit attaching conditions to your happiness. Decide to be happy regardless of the circumstances.

When we brood over things, we compound them. So lighten up, go with the flow and get excited about how much things might change at any moment.

Now about destiny and bad luck. When you are wandering off of the path of your destiny, there is a phenomena that works like a corrective action to push you back on to your path. So now it is up to you to discover what your purpose is, because once you find it, life will be full of good luck for you.

I'll get a thumbs down for this but I wouldn't say it if I didn't think it true.

You need more God in your life, and with that comes a new perspective.

Everything of this world is temporary, sometimes you have to learn how to cherish the small miracles to see the big ones... it sounds sappy but it's true. Watch some ants, stare at some clouds, live in the moment and try not to judge your life on the sadness you've accumulated. The more you think about the negative the more it sticks to you like a gooey muck. Everything happens for a reason. Everyday is new, and it's only a bad day if you allow yourself to think that, and really if it truly is, theres always tomorrow. :)

I know this sounds stupid but if you keep thinking you have bad luck then you will. Just stop having negative thoughts. I bet there is a lot of great things about you, you just have to forget about all the negativity. Im sorry you cant be with your love, Im sure it will happen though. If you both love each other it will come back, believe me! i felt the same way and thought I lost them forever and they came back!

You have to believe that after every night there is a day. When there is a bad time, there has to be a good time following that. Trust in God. Always try to be patience. It is just that you are passing through a bad time now and wait patiently for good days to come. Don't be despondent. Such phase of life is common for all of us. Ups and downs are bound to be there in life. We have to face it with courage. When one is going through such phase, he thinks that all bad things happen to him only. It is not the fact. All living beings in this world have their own problems, though of different nature. Plz don't be upset. I wish you all the best.

That's a clear case of negative reaction; I won't delve into your environment; before consulting a specialist, i would suggest you improve your food diet - much more fruits and other vitamins and minerals which are vital for a healthy habit; secondly, wear your best dresses and look smartest in front of your mirror in your personal room and try to talk to yourself referring how SMART you are. Try to improve simple things like hair style, etc. You will definitely find an improvement. ANYBODY is important in this world - and YOU too!

certainly u r not the only one to feel like this!! there r so many people around u who thinks like that.life will be full of moments and it depend on how u receive it or convert it according to ur priorities in life.never think that " why only me" bcoz if something bad has occured pl have patience to analyse what is ur part in that debacle and try to correct yourself.no one can help anyone unless a needy person has the strong will power to accept/face the situation ( applies to even your DESTINY).finally it is u and only u to resolve yourself.taking advice/help is just like adding extra sugar to your coffee!!.Good luck and have a nice future.

its because you are letting it get to you... i have crap for life as well... im more messed up than most people... but i ignore it.... try laughing it off... its life, it will find every way to bite you in the *** before it gives you anything to be happy about...

"It could be worse. A woman could cut off your penis while you're sleeping and toss it out the window of a moving car."

I have had those mouments, And all i can say is pray, And don't keep thinking negative, If you love someone set them free, if they dont return it wasn't meant to be...

its not you..its just your thinking....do u have ur parents wid u...do u have ur friends wid u... do u have soem person wid u who knows u and talks to you....if yes ..if u do have some of them..then hhow can u be having any bad luck...bad luck are for them who doesnt have any of the person mentioned above...mistakes happens in life but that doesnt mean u start regreting ...mistakes are the part of life...tell me the name of a single person who never commited any mistake...u r best in ur own way...and now to feel it...just start believing that u r best in ur own way....

LIFE IS TOO SHORT TOO LIVE SO DONT WASTE IN REGREING ANYTHING JUST LIVE IT