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I really want this guy to like me but my friend likes him too!?

ok i really like this guy but my friend likes him too. She's kinda slutty and shows off cleavage a lot. he seems to talk to her more when we are both around but then when she leaves he completely focuses on me! what does this mean? (we are friends!)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Maybe in a sense, he knows that you both like him, and maybe he talks to your friend, because he just doesn't want her to feel bad, because he talks to you ALOT MORE doesn't he (when your friend leaves) so hes just sort of "making her feel better in a sense" and I really think you guys should hang out more, he totally, seems like "in the future" he'll give alot up for you

  • 1 decade ago

    well you guys are friends so if that means anything to you than I would back off (both of you) and pick some other guy to crush on. you will find out in the end that the guy will ruin your friendship because you will battle over him. Good luck..

    He likes her cause it seems like she will put out and she shows off her body

    and... he likes you because you are normal and don't try to hard to impress anyone you are yourself your friend believes the only way to get a man is to show her self off.

  • 1 decade ago

    It might not mean anything. Yeah, guys are attracted to girls that aren't afraid to show off what they have, but for some it can be quite intimidating. If you really want him, there is nothing wrong with asking him out. Sometimes guys don't want to do all the work haha

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    hes probably intrested in the both of you just flirt with him more often sometimes wear something that shows your cleavage but not to much ... and then just have fun flirting and most important be yourself!

    your friend isnt such a good friend if she knows you like him and does those things

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think it means he thinks hes a little player

    cause if he talks to your friend even when you around obviously hes not focusing his attention on you. Only when she leaves does he do so. Maybe he thinks he could get in her pants easier so I would forget about him honey

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  • 1 decade ago

    Play it cool. Men love the chase and even though it may be handy--they don't ever "love" loose women. I know it sounds dumb but I always made a point to be extra nice to the guys around the one I was interested in--and ignored him completely. Worked every time. Don't know why.

    C.B.

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  • 1 decade ago

    that means that hes a guy and he will look at boobs when they are in his face. its the eye contact that matters. friends are the first stage to any good relationship though..thats a great start. is your girl friend as good of friends with him as you are? i bet shes not. just let things happen. if he does end up liking you which it sounds like he does..dont loose your friend over a guy or anything, if it ever comes down to you having a chance to be with him let your friend know whats going on. she will be hurt but ultimately she will have to respect that he likes you and you like him. Help her focus her attention on another guy that you *noticed was checking her out*... things like this work out over time.

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  • 1 decade ago

    It is hard to tell. If she is slutty, she should soon move on, leaving the path free for you. Make sure you pick the right time.

  • 1 decade ago

    May the best girl win! Whatever the outcome will be, be a good sport. There's lot a guys out there if you don't get him. But if you do, then good for you.

  • 1 decade ago

    That he is friends with both of you. Don't resort to ANY attention seeking strategies. He knows you and he likes you. If it is to develop into anything more just let it happen naturally.

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