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what is happening?...anybody experience this before?

ok guys and gals, we met online, we expressed our feelings, now we are in a long distance relationship(dont say its not gonna work lol) we both love each other very much, the thing is, the things i felt when i had just said i loveu to her, those things are growing intensely, i mean seriously, shes just in my head the whole day, i miss her like HELL, whenever i see some beautiful place, i start imagining that it would have been great if she was with me here, when i see something beautiful in those girl's shops, i wish i would buy it and send it to her..

i have dreamed like 5 times of her, her voice always keeps ringing in my ears, what do u think it is?...am i in some problem?...i dont know, i dont have the heart to tell her all this..

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  • 1 decade ago
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    wow wee, you got it bad love!

    Thats a great thing.. I wouldnt feel bad about the way you feel and call it a problem! Its a problem when you cant find someone you love! lol

    I dont think you should come on too heavy and say all what you put in your post cos you might scare the poor girl away but i would test the water and ask her if she has missed you on a particular day or ask her if anything reminds her of you. If you want to buy her gifts and send them then do it! Hey I would love it if a guy did that for me!

    If you have both said I LOVE YOU then that is massive in itself and a phrase that shouldnt be passed around lightly.. she obviously loves you and is into you so tell her how your feeling just dont be scary about it lol

    Girls love romance and people telling them nice things so she should lap it up... I am 1 year into my relationship and I am lucky if my fella tells me i make a nice cup of tea! LOL xxxx

  • 5 years ago

    a jinn experience actually back in my old house.. i was sleeping on the floor in the living room.. (don't ask why?) but we have an arch that connects the kitchen to the living room. I am sleeping and suddenly i wake up and it seems like my grandpa all dressed up ready to go to mosque is standing there, yet it's like night. Definetely not my gramps.. i pulled teh covers over my head and started praying.. i dare not lift the covers up i was so scared. Next morning i ask my gramps if he was there he says no. Then i said it on the breakfast table and i was scared that people would say that i was lying. Actually my mom and my aunt mention they have seen the same jinn standing right by the arch at night. But half of my family still lives there.. we figured since the jinn was dressed in a prayer outfit and has not done any harm.. it's a good jinn and we are not afraid of it anymore.. but yeah this was all back in India i was about 10 or 11 but boy i will never forget that! This was a life changing experience because ever since i am very interested in the paranormal EDIT: people who don't believe or make fun of ppl who have seen it.. not everyone can see it.. i think you have to be open minded about them to actually see them. i have also sensed that a mansion was haunted after a year later i researched and found out that it was haunted. They will only make them selves seen to people who want to actually see them.

  • Anna C
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    It depends, how long have you been dating? Have you discussed your goals you have for each other (fun relationship/serious/see where it goes/future marriage?).

    This same thing happened to me. I fell in love with a guy like you said above and never told him. I kept it inside because I didn't want to rock the boat and I wanted to wait for him to make the move first. But then one day we found out we were on completely different wavelengths. And that is when I thought that the only thing that can save us is if we are completely real with each other, and that means sharing those feelings and being exactly who you are.

  • 1 decade ago

    I wouldn't tell her everything you're feeling all at once, espcially if the relationship is new. It could scare her away. I don't think you're in a problem either, just give the situation time. If it is truly love, it will remain love. New relationships are always overwhelming and exciting in the beginning. A great love is like a good worn pair of jeans, they fit perfectly and are absolutely comfortable. If she's your pair, you'll know it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    That's great that you met online and everything but relationships are hard to do when you can't see the person as much as you want to. How do you know you actually love her by the things you say online? You could meet anyone online and tell them things like that, so how can you truly know if you love her if you don't actually say it to her face?

  • 1 decade ago

    Enjoy your feelings & experience!

    It don't get Any Better Than This!

    But ....... The Bottom Line?

    You may be living in Disney, bro'.

    You might be living a life of ILLUSIONS!

    Is this your 1st Female Encounter

    on-line? You sound VERY Young.

    Have FUN~

    Date MANY~

    Gain Valuable Experience!

    AND ..... Try meeting REAL People~

    EYE to EYE in the Real World, too!

    I wish you luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Have you met her in person? If not then you have built up some fantasy about her and how perfect it could be. You should come back down to earth now and face reality. If you build it up like this, when you do meet her then you will be disappointed. Nothing in real life is like that.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you REALLY like her. love is a strong word. i have the same problem. i really like this guy and whenever im not with him everything that happens when im with him makes me think of him;music, people, places. it can get annoying but its still an amazing feeling. and also i have had a dream with him every night for the last 2 weeks:p haha

  • 1 decade ago

    You should get together with her. It's not a bad thing. You should meet with her someplace and have lunch or spend the day during vacation or something. Hope all goes well! ♥♥♥

    Mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aiyjm...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It's love - Meet up with her, see if you feel the same again, and if she feels the same way - tell her!!!!

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