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? asked in Pregnancy & ParentingParenting · 1 decade ago

Anybody else feel like the parenting board is going to the trolls?

I do. It is getting quite dull now.

To add to this question and make it legit, are you part of any other parenting communities and are these communities friendlier than here? Or is it the same everywhere?

Update:

BB: Thanks for that link. Your probably right on the teen boys bit, no real mothers could be as nasty as some of the 'women' here.

Update 2:

*Just to clarify, I don't mind debating and people sharing opinons-in fact I love it. I mean people mimicking accounts, sending hate mail, threatening other users...it seems to have been happening quite a bit recently.

Update 3:

Tom cat clearly can't read a question properly, as I said I am talking about out and out bullying as defined by the Y!A guidelines...not disagreeing with people. Y!A define who is a troll...

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It's not just the idiotic trolls with their stupid fetish questions and nonsense that have ruined the parenting area on YA, but a whole host of things- including the people running YA.

    The problems are compound.

    * TROLLS

    * Teenagers or people posing as kids asking stupid questions or answering parenting questions because "i babysat for a long time" or some other ridiculous reason they give thinking it is authoritative and taken seriously.

    * questions that have no business being in parenting areas at all- "do you like my novel", "I need names for my dog", "do you like this shirt". Just because YA suggests a category does not mean that it is the best one for the question! People don't think before they post!

    * people attacking everyone else because they don't like that someone may say something differently than them or do something different from how they would.

    It's many things. If YA would screen these questions better we wouldn't have 500 questions everywhere saying "am I pregnant if.." or other questions that are repeated continually by people. There should be a way to block questions all ready asked from being posted by someone else. They should take people that ask obvious fetish questions and remove them from the board. They should better screen these questions so when you get this "I'm 11" or other nonsense they are removed- along with the person posting it- because their own guidelines say 13 and older- but they do not enforce it when these people post as younger ages. Some of the other boards are nasty to other moms who don't 100% agree with them or too sugary. There is no happy medium with normal anymore.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    What to Expect has a much better pregnancy and early childhood site than any other I have seen yet. It is my personal favorite. The site has a way for you to make a profile to share with friends and family as well as lots of tools to help you keep track of things. It is especially great while pregnant (I know from personal experience) but I don't know how great the parenting part is.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think there is alot of unscreened nonsense going on too but I try hard not to feed into it. I only answer questions I feel I can contribute useful information to. With me I have gone through a rough life and if I can help one sincerely lost soul it makes my bad life a little more bearable. I think alot of the problem is selfish attention hungry teenagers who are bored and on punishment. But that's my personal opinion.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes I agree.There are way to many trolls on this board now.You could check out the Mothering Magazine Forum.They have some pretty great advice and such,they do not allow spamming and they have boards for pretty much every subject you can think of..

    Check it out-http://www.mothering.com/discussions/

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yep, but trolls come and go and hopefully the good users on here will stick it out and continue to ask interesting questions and give good advice, facts, and opinions.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I actually enjoy it because people on here are willing to speak their mind and give honest opinions, whereas on other sites everyone's overly nice even when they hate what the other person is doing/planning/going to name a child etc.

  • 5 years ago

    i believe no could desire to homestead college my babies, I stay in one relatives homestead and purchase regardless of is on sale on the grocery tale. those issues could be on the backside of my "undesirable parenting" checklist. i believe that persons who went to varsity and have coaching stages are lots extra appropriate to teach my young babies. I by some capacity graduated intense college with honors yet i'm no longer afraid to confess I suck as a instructor and that my son, who is going into third grade, seems to be like attentive to extra desirable than i be attentive to. I thank the same old public college device for that. My son loves college and can't wait to pass decrease back decrease back week. He actually instructed his baseball coach that he desires there grow to be no summer season smash and that they they went 365 days around. the large element approximately being in this united states, and maximum international places, is that we are going to make those judgements with out being judged and criticized. a minimum of via those that truly count. BQ: My day wasn't too undesirable. My step mom found out she is going in for surgical technique on Sept. 6th to biopsy the available cancer that unfold to her lungs. in the event that they could't attain it via endoscopy, they are going to could desire to do "generic" surgical technique which will require a a million week wellness middle stay as against 3 days. On a extra effective be conscious, my daughter grow to be in mattress earlier 2am!

  • y
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    It started getting real bad one or two months ago. A lot of the regulars left. Every time it starts to pick up speed again. Someone or someones come in and start to play their games again.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I do agree, obviously some of the people answering are not mopthers as they have no idea what they are on about, but sometimes it can get quite amusing! =)

  • 1 decade ago

    I agree, I think it's all teenage boys with no lives.

    Go to i-am-pregnant.com it's way better, and zero trolls :)

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