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how does one prevent premature ejaculation?

my boyfriend lasts anywhere from 1-30 minutes. the first time we slept together he only lasted three minutes. he said it was because he was anxious and there was a lot of anticipation for him. the next time he lasted about a half an hour. now he averages two minutes. how can i make him less anxious (or whatever it is) to help him last longer?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    become uglier

  • 5 years ago

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  • dash
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Any guy is not gonna last a long time if you are expecting him to 'go at it' in one position.

    You gotta mix it up. Change positions. Give him a rest occasionally.

    Some positions are more stimulating for guys than others.

    Try going 'girl on top' for a while.... guys often last longer if they are not 'thrusting'.

    Slow the whole process down so that it is more relaxed and fun.

    Finally... he can try using a condom to reduce his sensitivity a little.

  • poppy1
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Hi Dear,

    Both of you take things slowly!!! Don't be in a hurry to do something that is natural for Us to do..Just tell him to slow down and not be in a big hurry..If you have oral sex before intercourse,don't let him spend a lot of time doing this..Men really enjoy this and it gets them off fast if your not careful..

    Your Friend,

    poppy1

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    your boyfriend is just like any other guys normal

    1-3 min is average.without the foreplay

    those other guys who say they can last for hour is a bunch of bull crap and they are imature.

    as for lasting longer someday he is feeling it someday he is not.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just so YOU know, "premature ejaculation" usually refers to when a male ejaculates WITHOUT any type of penetration!!! Like when he "finishes" in his pants, before there is any type of actual sexual activity. So your BF, sounds like he just needs more "practice"!!! Either that, or suggest to him, to masturbate, shortly before the two of you attempt sexual activity!!! That way he is LESS likely to "finish" so quickly!!!

    Good luck, with that !!!

    ~Thee Raunchy Mann~

  • 1 decade ago

    just masturbate and when u r about to ejaculate ,atop it and start again .This excercise will cure ur problem,gud luck

  • 1 decade ago

    he could train his penis. google search it, there are guides on how to control that

  • 1 decade ago

    you cant always. but there are exersices he can do

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