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Question for men - would you turn down a woman who initiates sex?
You are away for the weekend with your girlfriend. You have had sex a few times but not since 4pm the previous evening. It is now 7am the next morning and you are a bit tired but you only had a few drinks the previous night and were in bed by 11pm. You girlfriend makes it clear that she would like sex... what do you do?
My boyfriend did not return my physical advances and said nothing other than telling me to have a shower so we could have breakfast.
Actually I have never turned him down - but he has turned me down a few times... says he's tired
and a few times is about 3 times over 3 days and nights....
19 Answers
- spitfireddLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
OVERREACTION ALERT!!!!!!
Chill out, you said yourself you already had sex a few times maybe he wasn't in the mood or something.
- 1 decade ago
What was he smoking? I love it when my wife flat out offers me sex. However, I will say that there have been times when I was really tired and was not in the mood but all that it took was for my wife to start kissing on me and that woke me right up. Maybe try some more aggressive advances next time.
- Ross JamesLv 71 decade ago
Something is wrong with him, but you didn't define "a few times". He may be worn out and needs to recharge. However, you could take matters in hand, so to speak, and get him going again. Just letting him know that you would like it is not necessarily enough.
If you are going to initiate it, the INITIATE it.
- Anonymous5 years ago
There's gotta be a reason hun cuz every man I know would love that! Maybe he's gay? Blokes hate the idea of sex with a woman when they're gay, it repulses them is what I've heard. You really need to be asking him, cuz he's the only one who knows for sure :)
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- AtalantaLv 61 decade ago
So many men say, theoretically, that they would welcome it if a woman initiated sex, but when she actually tries, he hates the idea - also, he can't always get "ready". He doesn't want to admit he is not always the dominant partner.
What they actually mean is that when they ARE "ready" for sex, they wouldn't mind if a woman said " how about it", but if they aren't, they feel inadequate.
Really and truly, men only want sex when THEY want sex.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Sex for women is easy, for men it's a lot more physically demanding, its like having a workout just after waking up, he's not a machine give him a chance to recharge the batteries, nothing more than fatigue, i wouldn't read into it
- topgun484Lv 41 decade ago
ha.. well if my girlfriend came onto me and wanted more sex.. I wouldent think twice she would be getting it all day until we were both tired.. but thats cause im a little nympho
- Anonymous1 decade ago
he could simply be tired he is human you know give him some space he has not declined your offer nor stopped loving you my partner does this but a few days later we resume so i would be patient he will be back on form again.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Maybe he was tired
I wouldn't do anything if I was tired
Give him a break XD