Should I be upset my wife wants to go to her High School Reunion alone?

Sure, either 1- she is ashamed of you or 2-she is looking for a old flame,,,

Sometimes one spouse or the other might find opportunities like this to "take a break" from one another. That's not a bad thing, unless she's cheated on you in the past. If there has been some previous infidelity, then yes.... insist you be there. But if not, then let her go. Matter of fact, enjoy the alone time!!! Do some things for yourself that you haven't been able to or chose not to because of wifey... book tickets to a ball game, hang out, have peeps over, go fishing!! But one thing I would suggest is to surprise her with a totally romantic evening when she comes back.

I do honestly believe she is thinking of the cost factor. If you told her that you guys can do it with free miles, and cheap car rental etc, I am almost positive she would want you there. Remind her of how important she is to you, and being included in her past would be awesome. I don't think this will come across as "needing" to go. Sometimes we read to much into a situation when the other person has never intended for it to come across as it has. Good Luck!

Hmmm... I would feel slighted too...i mean it would be special to take my significant other to my hometown to meet my old friends and share those memories together, so i'm confused as to why she wouldn't want to include you...

The only way to resolve this is to be straight forward with her and tell her how you feel or else she will never know and you will harbor ill feelings towards her for not including you...

Just ask her point blank why she prefers to go alone and you may want to be prepared for an answer you really don't want...like for example, she just doesn't want to take you... adn then you have to deal with why she feels that way if she does indeed, but unless you ask, you will never know...so just ask

Communication is the key to a healthy relationship and believe me it's easier said than done...but it is true

Good luck to you :)

Yes I can see why you are being a little bit sensitive. I think if it was me I would being acting the same way you are. Maybe you need to tell her "you would love to go so you could meet people she grew up with"..see how she reacts to that. If she shuts you down again, I might consider somethings up.

You're being over sensitive. Let her go alone. I know some reunions only allow the graduate, no spouses.

My husband has gone to both of his high school reunions, I went. It was boring. I only knew one other person there and that's only because I've met her several times through out the years. Her and I, we're not friends, we barely have conversations..I just know her through my husband because they are friends.

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Why should you go along anyhow. You don't know her friends. I would not want to go to my wife's high school reunion. It's boring. They would be talking about their personal past of which I am not part. So ease off. This is not for you.

She probably thinks you will just be bored and overly critical of her friends and her past. Just let her go by herself unless you don't trust her. Enjoy the alone time for your self. Don't worry she will be back. Even if its to get her clothes.

You can bring it up but dont take it too seriously. Just tell her everything you talk about regarding frequent flyer. But honestly, I would suggest for you not to go. Unless she is styaing longer than necessary, then you have to ask her why.

I agree with the first answerer. Honestly, I wouldn't even CONSIDER going to my reunion without my spouse, and I know he wouldn't either. This is definitely cause for concern, and I would talk to her about it.

Just bring it up casually and ask her why you're not welcome to come. Tell her that you were under the impression you were both going, and you're just wondering why she'd prefer to go alone as opposed to attending together.

Talk to her, and see what she has to say about it.

Good luck.