Could someone help me calm down? (surprise pregnancy)?

I know you are a bit overwhelmed right now but just take a step back and breathe.

First, if your beloved doctor has referred someone, take a chance .... she wouldn't have recommended someone she doesn't trust.

Secondly, hearts are a wonderful thing ... they just open up and let more love in. Yes, you will still love your son and yes you will love your next child.

My kids are 14 and 12..... and I can't imagine not having either. Enjoy your babies because they will grow up faster than you will ever imagine.

I'm sorry about your doctor. Yes, I'm dealing with it right now. I had my first baby when I was only 16. The doctor that I had was great. He was also some one I could just open up to. Well now that baby is 4 1/2 years old... I'm 7months pregnant and WAS seeing the same doctor. Then out of no where my insurance changed! He dose not take it. Now I was with out a doctor and having problems with this pregnancy. So I was so up set! I cried so hard. But I had to deal with not having my doctor... I'm still looking for a new doctor but I think I found one I like.

Every thing always works out for the best sooner or latter. So just keep thinking it will be sooo worth it when I have the baby.

I was 2 1/2 years old when my Mom got pregnant w/ my brother. I'm sure I was jealous at some point but I don't remember at all & he was & is my best friend in the world. Your son now is going to have a constant playmate, it's one of the greatest things you can do for him. You just made life a million times more fun. As for the dr thing, it sucks but get over it. Same thing w/ the unexpected surprise. Take a look at the posts from women who are struggling to conceive. Just be happy you have been blessed TWICE. Other women go through so much to get what is causing you so much anxiety. Congrats!

No ur definitely not crazy. As u said ur still in a state of a shock. It happened to my freind too. She is now pregnant, almost 6 yrs after her daughter. She was crying all the time and going mad. But time heals everything. She's now a happy preggy lady getting ready for delivery next month. I'm sure u'l be ok too. Just try meditating at times ur about to go mad.

One thing more, Love is never divided. It's multiplies as u get more kids...

Take CAre

your not crazy and your not ruining your family and most likely your son will enjoy having a sibling just sit back and relax and like you said this baby was meant to be god had other plans so congrats and good luck