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Should I involve the police or my parents?

I'm no longer friends with them anymore (obviously) but these three girls have decided to make up a rumor that they have several dirty pictures of me that I sent to this guy that I hung out with. Fact is, I never sent him any dirty pictures, but this guy is one of the girl's ex, so they're pissed that I hung out with him even once. They've all been verbally abusive and harassed me, and I have texts to prove this. They've called me many names, and called me "stupid, dumb" and said many demeaning things.

If I could, I'd go to my parents, or the police, and tell them what's up, and get the girls in trouble for this. I'd have no problem being a narc if they got what they deserved. But, the girls know I smoked weed, and so they would go straight back to my parents and tell them this. At this point, I still wouldn't pass a drug test, so I can't do this yet. What do I do?

I feel I've been threatened, blackmailed, and harassed.

One of the girls told one of the other girls she wants to mess with my house, and the girl who she told it to is good friends with my best friend, and they were on the phone (speakerphone, so I heard everything, she just doesn't know it) and she told my best friend this. Also, about a week ago, my friend and I were in the parking lot of a grocery store, walking across towards the store (there's no actual crosswalk, just signs for cars to be prepared for pedestrian crossing), and just as were walking across, we see a car speeding up, nearly hit us, and breeze past. We then see that the person driving this car was oen of the girls, and another one of the girls was in the passenger's seat.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Both. I have to tell you that depending on the test the water thing may or may not work. What is being tested is THC and that is generally out of your system in 30 days. It could be more or less depending on your body fat. Meaning if you have a 4% body fat it will be out sooner than someone with a 20% body fat.

    You should tell your parents before this escalates into something more. Then your parents should go with you to talk to the police. Take your phone and show them the texts. Because of the incident where they tried to run you and your friend over you can actually get a restraining order against them and that is what I would do if this were my daughter.

    Source(s): mother, grandmother, social worker
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    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    would the car have actually hit you or were they just trying to scare u?? if u feel ur being threatened u need to tell your parents. If u can wait awhile so u will be able to pass your drug test that would be the best. Drink a lot of water to try to flush it out of your system. I know a guy that smoked the day before and drank so much water he was clean the next day. Just drink a lot and pee a lot for a couple of days and hopefully u will pass.

    even if your parents learn u have been smoking that is not as bad as u getting hurt is it? these girls need to know that they can't just do anything they want. There r rules and u need to let your parents deal with it. If u don't think your parents can do anything about it go to the police. especially since these girls could escalate into doing something really bad.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    If they are saying they have pictures that they don't have, call them out in front of everyone and tell them to show everyone the pics. When they fail to deliver them, they will not only look like the liars they are, they will also look like idiots. If by chance there are really pics, then shame on you, and its a lesson learned. The police wont do anything unless your life has been threatened, and even then the police drag their heals on threats te. If you have proof that they are threatening your house you can make a report about it. the police wont do anything about that kind of threat, but then if something does happen to your home they will already have the threat on record and they have someone to go after. You could also turn the tables on them. Be creative. I dont know what else to tell you dear except good luck getting those biotches.

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  • sammi
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    u need to tell both

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