Missing Condoms. Cheating?

maybe she used the other one before she got with you, you never know how long they've been there. all you can really do is ask because no one on here can tell you what happened to the missing condoms. she may have gave them to her friend, when my friends need one i'll give them one without thinking twice. it's better to take precautions than to end up with some kind of STD that you don't need.

OK - first, I feel for you and your situation. However, have you both come to a mutual understanding that you are in an exclusive relationship? This can't be assumed at all. Once you've come to that agreement, then you have to look at the other factors. Does she have a roommate? Does some of her guy friends ask her for condoms? these are just a couple of possibilities that can exist as to why the number of condoms are decreasing.

How is your relationship doing now? Have you noticed a change in her behavior, as if she's trying to hide something? Is she treating you differently?

If you're really concerned - you may have to do a little bit of dumpster diving. Go through the trash until you find a used condom. If it's empty, no big deal. but if it has stuff inside of it (you know what I mean) you'll have your answer and then you two can have a serious conversation about your relationship and its future.

Until then, since there's no proof that she's cheating on you, you have to dismiss this as "circumstantial evidence" and give her the benefit of the doubt. I wish you all the best.

Hello there

I am the surfer

Several areas of your questions need to be addressed by topics

1.) You have dated 3 and a half months, i believe is too fast and too intense , the both of you started and moved on too fast to handle in such a way that after 3 months she is talking about marriage!? that soon !?, that is a sign she is trying to get a hubby not to be alone, i belive she feels that the train of oportunity is close to pass by around her so she is AFRAID TO BE ALONE so therefore after only 3 months she talks about wedding plans, and babies and the like

How old is she any way? the older women go the more in a hurry to marry the next guy who comes around YOU!

2.) It was her talking about babies NOT YOU planning a future takes TWO not just her!

( I got a relationship with my milk box inside the fridge for 3 months too and i dumped the milk for expiration date!.....)

3.) Beauty and attraction are DESCRIPTIVE not PREDICTIVE, you said she does not seem the type for cheating , based on appearences disillusion come ! ANY BODY CAN BE A CHEATER , FACE ALONE DOES NOT TELL !

4.) In order to tell about the cheating look at the expiration date of the condoms, if those were old before you came very likely she used 1 before you , if the expiration date is closer to your time together very likely she used it with somebody else ...

5.) People cheat to look out side the relationship what they could not find inside, if there is an area of the 2 of you lacking or mising, she looks at that away from you , so how good or boring is your sex like with her? the answer weights heavily to resolve the question ....

6.) To confirm the cheating with evidence look after her e mails , credit car records and phone numbers, and contrast those with time and dates you were with her..... if she cheated she must have call or receive a call from the other guy so phone records will tell so as e mails and cell phone numbers... and credit cards in order to tell weather or not she payed a motel or restaurant or club expenses with the other guy .....

7.) How good you know her beyond and deep past appearences? ....

8.) I belive even so with out actual concrete evidence her signs are enough to move away from her , if she did this to you , neglected a condom pack inside her drawer is because she believes she can take you for granted, a conclusion that is backed up by the fact that she is leading you to marry her with out your active participation ...! so therefore what else you could expect from her on the future? !! NO GOOD COMES FOM HER....

Relationships are the R formula Reciprocity Respect, Romance, no so Rutine, Real and Responsibilities sharing you are not getting any R from her !

DUMP HER

THERE ARE A PLENTY OF GOOD WOMEN ( ANY GIRL CAN BE BETTER THAN HER!) TO CHOOSE , YOU ARE WASITING TIME, EFFORT, FEELINGS AND MONEY WITH SOME ONES WHO DOES NOT DESERVE MUCH FROM YOU

Do you want to look back at realize how much you lost and sacrified to be with such some one while you could have some one better!?

From the surfer

Good heavens, what are you worrying about?

That box was there already before you two got a relationship.

Many single women have condoms in stock, in case they would meet someone suddenly and this someone would stay for the night.

Also, many women have a condom or two in their handbag, also because you never know what happens when you're single..... just for protection, who wants to have aids etc.?

So, I think that's it.

Just ask her, and don't be so suspicious, it won't be anything serious!

you really should just confront your girlfriend about this.

it sounds like youre in a loving relationship and she probably has a perfectly good reason for the missing condoms and would hate to know you thought she might be cheating.

its very likely she couldve just given one to her friend

She probably gave one to a friend. Does she have a roommate? Maybe she took one. I would ask her about it calmly--as in, don't accuse her of cheating.