my fiance wants to move back home?

It sounds like he's done a lot to accommodate you and your children by staying in MA. Now, it's his turn. Move back to GA with him. You will make new friends there.

If he's moved for you and stayed 6yrs, then i think you should follow his lead and give his home town/city a chance. Who's to say it won't hold a lot more for you and your family. Making friends is only a matter of time especially if you have kids. I should think it would be exciting, another chance at a new experience, you just may end up liking it a lot more than anywhere else in the long run, but you'll never know unless you give it that chance, i don't think you should pass it up.

You could always visit or it will make it a special occasion with nana coming there for a visit. Sometimes it's nice because it gives the other person who might not know anyone at a distance to get the chance to travel, it's always nice to get away for a change of scenery or a short vacation.

You have two children with this man.

Your choices must be made with the best interests of THE KIDS as your primary concern.

Seven years of playing house, of course he doesn't feel obligated to stay where his kids have bonds to anyone. It's all about how homesick he is.

Maybe if he was a HUSBAND and had been legally bound and married to you, he would feel more ties to the home he has created with you.

P.S. You both sound like teenagers away at camp for the first time, with all the talk of being homesick.

No matter what you do, make sure that you make everything all legal before you move in again.

Money in your pocket is nice, but you'll still be living off of his folks, and not building any EQUITY or wealth of your OWN, ON your own like you would if you bought a home together, as man and wife with both of your names on the mortgage ... unless you're buying the land and the home you'll be living in.

How do you know that, once you're back in GA, that the same problems that he ran away from won't be there waiting for him to come back? He left once ... who's to say that he won't cut and run again??

T H I N K !!!

Please ??

in the experience that your son needs some training in his existence and is soliciting for some help then you definately could attempt to parent some thing out as his mom. in the experience that your son has gotten himself into hardship interior the previous then sit down inclusive of your fiance and tell him which you will lay down some regulations to your son.. Ask him if there are issues he might p.c. to characteristic inclusive of your approval.. Like curfews, cleansing, and so on. Then communicate to your son with reference to the regulations, what function your fiance will play. If he nevertheless won't enable your son circulate in then you definately've a substantial determination to make.

after 7 yrs being away from Ga what is the compulsion to move back?

seems to me you have made a home where you are, 6 yrs, had children and establish roots

seems to me he is being selfish

No, dear, it's he who is the me, me, me kind of person. You are where you are and he has no right to ask you to move. It should be a joint decision and if you don't want to go, you shouldn't. Go home with him to visit his family often.

he met a lady on the internet that he used to know and is going to get some strange vagina and dump a load in it. Hope this helps.

Time to be an adult get married and be with your husband.

Take her with u lol

move to georgia it is great here