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? asked in HealthMen's Health · 1 decade ago

How do I ask my boyfriend this question??? Please only serious answers!?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over three years. We have sex at least four times a week. We have tried different positions and other things during sex.

For quite a while, I haven't been pleasured during sex. I think that it's because I'm used to his size and the way we "do it".

He has always been self conscious about his size, I don't know how to make sex more pleasurable without offending him.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Try telling him what you like, in a way that doesn't make you sound like you are instructing him. Men don't like to be 'taught', being guided is fine, after three years you would think the penny would have dropped by now?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Have him go down on you, show him what feels good to you. Then YOU mount him, straddle his hips and lower yourself down on his erect penis and YOU take control of the action.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Start talking dirty...that might help.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just remember to put on a condom

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  • 1 decade ago

    What if YOU are on top? amnd what about more foreplay for you

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