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My topless wifes picture is my best friends phone!?

An hour ago I borrowed my longtime bestfriends cell phone to call my wife of 7 years to let her know I loaned my cell to my daughter. She didnt answer and I didnt bother to leave a voicemail.Several seconds after I hung up the phone rang, I looked at the screen and it said her name, her number and a picture of her came up of her topless on our bed. I'm fuming. I walked away from the area before I explode, cell phone still in hand, and she keeps calling. I know he already called her because she keeps calling and now hes calling from our office phone. Everytime I look at his phone to answer, I see her picture there on his phone and I can't talk. I need advice bad and fast.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I would confront the friend first and see what he has to say. Good luck!!

  • 1 decade ago

    You've been married to this woman for seven years.. So just up and leaving her after one naked picture on your best friend's phone without so much as talkin' to her and him is a little extreme...

    When you walked away, phone in hand, you should have went thru his phone and erased all the picture(s) of your wife.. But you were very angry and you weren't thinkin' straight...

    Ask him point blank why he has a naked picture of your wife on his cell phone.. Explain to him that you sincerely hope having that picture was ever enough for him because he's gone and ruined a long time friendship..

    Ask your wife why she sent the picture to him. Find out if there's anything goin' on - tell her you've seen the picture now so there's really no reason to lie about it.. And go from there, with whatever actions you want to take..

  • Claire
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Hi :) I've had a similar experience. SO WEIRD, I was going to write a letter to someone and typed up the words "would you consider" and BOOM!! the title of your question came up and intrigued me to click on it. Anyways I was totally cut up when I found out my partner registered on numerous dating sites listing himself as a single male interested in females blah blah blah, giving out his number too. I was suspicious when I noticed that out of the ordinary he'd always have his phone on him, always txting and up late at night til morning on the internet. I started taking note of the little things, such as the stupid grin he'd have while sitting at the computer, when he was on the phone he would always leave the room when I entered it, theres more So I read his txts and got into his email and found out what he was up to. I confronted him and he denied and then I gathered all my evidence to prove I wasn't being an idiot lol. He said it made him feel good that woman liked to chat with him and they wanted him sexually and he could play THE GAME ( the game is where you can say what ever you like to keep them interested, fake or not) he had no intentions of meeting them even though he said he would. He enjoyed the attention. He said he wouldn't have the balls to meet them anyway and that's when **** hit the fan. I said to him with a bit more confidence you will meet them or her, then what??. Now this really worried me because he is a decent looking guy, hes just shy. I considered this cheating because everything he did was cheating except meetin them in person. I think it would have come to that if he kept in contact as he would have eventually gotten more feelings and worked up the courage to meet. I let him know how I felt and what would he do if I did that to him, he said he'd go insane and that I handled it well. he didn't realise n he was sorry. He's been good since. I have become quite an observant person because of that,a plus from a negative experience. So I think he's been a good boy :) I said to him he will never find better than me if he cheated and I truly believe that. :) we have boundaries that came about from stuff ups like this lol I hope your wife realises what she did is WRONG and if she knows whats good she wouldn't ever think of doing that **** again. Good luck and I hope things work out for you both

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    This woman is your wife and has NO BUSINESS taking naked pictures of any part of her body and sending them to your friend OR anyone, unless she is trying to seduce him OR she is having an affair with him.

    She is NOT happy in this marriage or with you...if she were she wouldn't be doing this. This is probably not the first time she did this sort of thing. You need to talk with her, and NOT believe her lies... Truth only will help you. I doubt she will tell it. She has NO GOOD reason for what she did and in your heart you know this.

    I say they are both having an affair..She has NO respect for you or her marriage, she has no respect for herself either. As for the best friend he also has no respect for the friendship and he is NOT a best Friend..if there was nothing going on he would have come to you and said "hey look what your wife sent me, what's going on?" Do not let either of them lie to you with stupid excuses.

    Just for the record I am 30 and not a Teen.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    they are both calling off the hook because they contacted one another and your friend is probably thinking **** he saw the picture. You should call your friend to get an explanation before your wife and talk now before they have time to put together and excuse. GOODLUCK and im sorryy!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i advise you to get a new wife and a new best friend. as a friend i would reccomoned choosing a buddy name Jeff as Jeff's tend o be of the reliable type.

    good luck babess xx

    Source(s): personal experience
  • 1 decade ago

    HOLY **** WHAT A ******* *****!

    you need to talk to her and fast! where did he get that pic and why does she keep blowing up his phone?OH THATS RIGTH! shes having a ******* affair with him. you need to get divorce papers fast. she has no respect for you whatsoever and you deserve a good woman who wont **** you over like that. if she doesnt have any respect for you, why should you stick around with that? ok, you need to pack your stuff when yuo get home, shes gonna ask what your doing and simply say i want a divorce. she'll know what your ******* talking about. than you tell her what you foudn adn why you need to leave. actually you need to tell HER to leave the house than you need to let your daughter knw whats going on. dont you dare stick around with that that actually really pisses me off. stand up for yourself and dont let her get away with it.

  • 1 decade ago

    you should of answered the phone!!! what the ****? and you need to confront you friend and why she is calling your friend....dump that ho. and beat the hell out of your friend.

    that is really messed up. but you also need to take care of things at home so that your woman doesn't stray....when you don't fullfil her, she is going to look elsewhere.

    the same rule applies to women.

    If your friend is married, sleep with his wife..then the game is even.

  • 1 decade ago

    thats not cool man. you need to find out what the hell is up with that before she comes up with a good excuse. dont be a.... cat...

    Source(s): have had some bad gf's
  • 1 decade ago

    get the divorce started. text your friend. and text your wife. if you talk to them it will just get you worked up and probably make stupid decisions.

    Source(s): therapist
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