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Ladies re: porn - have you ever considered...?
letting your man take nude or partially clothed photos of you, so he doesn't NEED to look at porn?
I often see questions on here about the problems porn brings to marriages - why not do something about it?
I am not suggesting anything over the top or disgusting. I have taken photos of my wife over the years....mostly just nude - at a secluded beach, under a beach shower, in a wet tee shirt, riding a surfboard, sunbaking, at home in the shower, getting a nude massage, walking downstairs, in the kitchen, playing golf, being bodypainted, short skirt blowing up, in beautiful lingerie.....
I don't NEED to look at porn - when I get "stirrings" and she isn't around or available, I can just look at the photos of her, and I'm right to get on with my day again. Surely it's better than looking at someone else! It's just part of our sexlife.
Yes, yes, I know you probably don't think you look good enough, and neither does she, BUT she knows that I love her for her and I don't expect her to be like 20yr old model. Husbands/partners are more forgiving than you girls are of your imperfections.
Think about it - it MAY help. I NEVER need porn as she is always here on my computer with me.
It has to be worth considering........
I didn't think about splitting up and the photos being shown to anyone else - neither are even a thought with us. I guess you would have to totally trust your hubby.
Ladies in latter answers - you need to read the question. It talks about helping with the problem of porn (if you view it as a problem). But if you can't trust your hubby, then you have other problems.....
My wife knows that in the unlikely event of us breaking up, there is no chance that those photos would go anywhere! After 30++yrs married, that is unlikely though!
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- 3 in 1Lv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
My husband is in the Air Force and he was gone for 9 months and we obviously couldn't have sex so we would send sexy pictures of ourselves to one another. Neither one of us look at porn and he finds it boring. He enjoyed having nude pictures of me (nothing nasty) and being able to look at them and know that it wasn't considered wrong. I don't see anything wrong with a couple having nude/semi-nude pictures of one another as long as both parties are consensual.
I'm glad you posted this because this is an easy solution to a very hard problem (no pun intended :P). If men or women want to look at nude pics, who better to look at than their spouse :O)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I don't care if my husband watches porn, hell I'll even watch it with him. As for the photos or tape of myself, Have done it once but I kept the tape and I deleted the tape. I would never ever give someone that much power over me by having sexually explicit images of me that could be used against me or end up anywhere. Love can turn to hate very quickly and there are many many women out there who wish they never let themselves be that vulnerable. I love my husband but no man gets to keep that sort of stuff from me. And since i don't care if he watches porn and we have sex daily, he would have no right to complain anyway....
- MinLv 61 decade ago
Nope, Nope & Nope after 26 yrs of marriage why does my OH need a physical picture to look @ when he can close his eyes & know exactly what I look, feel & smell like?
Pictures can end up anywhere even when you are keeping them safe. What if someone stole yr camera, video camera, phone camera or even the still shots? Better safe than terribly embarrassed.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think the problem there is that if they do that and their husband still looks at porn it will be even more insulting and they are already having issues. See?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
We have considered it, but then there are the times when couples split and if the husband has pic's and possibly could use for blackmail or they could do other things if the relationship ends sour and could humiliate her. see? That is why we do not do it.
- TrueLv 51 decade ago
I agree with you. I have done that for my hubby. And with my husband being in the military I have done even more for him. So yes I agree.
- 1 decade ago
They could show up one day and embaress you variety is the spice of life so let him look at porn it doesn't hurt to have thoughties not naughties.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
No one NEEDS to view pornography. And I don't NEED to take nude pics of myself for him not to NEED to look at porn. But, I take them anyway because I like it.
