Should I make a Christmas List?

I've always done a list for my son to give to family. We do one list for my husbands side and one with different ideas for my side so when they ask they have ideas of what is appropriate and what our child would like. We do different lists of about 10 things and nothing really expensive so that we don't end up with the hassles of duplicates or someone buying something and getting into a fight about "I got it first take it back" before the holiday. Our list of the bigger things is for US to get for him from either mommy/daddy or Santa. It is not tacky at all it actually saves hassle.

If you're getting things that are inappropriate or that you have no room for then you need to just bite the bullet and donate what your child has lost interest in and has outgrown. If your FIL blows a fuse then he needs to understand not everyone wants to hoard everything like a pack rat until they die or everything their kid ever got as a gift. There has to be a point when enough is enough. I usually help my son go through his stuff in November each year and we donate anything that is "gently used" that he just doesn't want anymore. We donate to our churches nursery or to Goodwill depending on what we have. The other thing is make it very clear what is NOT okay for gifts and if you end up with them ask for the receipt to take it back and exchange it for something more appropriate or for a refund and just put the money towards your sons wants through the year. If FIL is so unreasonable he won't listen then tell him any items you don't have room for can stay at HIS house because you simply do not have room for them and will NOT turn your house into a hoarding pit of mess.

Well, me and my brothers decided that as long as all our kids were under 5 years old, each parent would buy 3 gifts (since we are 4 brothers) plus our own, and then we exchanged gifts without the children to know. Well, each one after that, felt a little guilty so then, they bought a small thing like chocolate or something like that.

Doing a list is a good idea but it is a little tacky...I kind of understand your problem because the same thing happened with my son Sam for his birthday.

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I think it's tacky. It's one thing to make suggestions to family members when asked, but you should be grateful for any gift or gesture given to your son. If it's not something you have room for, or not something he can use anymore then you can give it to the Goodwill and no one has to know.

Sounds like a great idea to mae an online list, making it a dear santa letter is even cuter! people dont usually know what to get kids because they dont know what you already have or what kids like or need! goodluck!