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So I have this friend...?
I have this friend. I love her. Very much. I don't want this to be long but you have to know some of the background.
I met her a few years back. She's openly gay. She a little younger than me but I could tell immediately she was very intelligent. She develop'd a crush on me which result'd in us not talking for months (her doing). We never act'd on it but I miss'd her horribly, so I found her && got her to talk to me again. Idk if she still likes me or not really. But she talks like she does, then like she doesn't. Anyway, we were talking earlier on AIM about the kind of person she is && she sent this:
"im just so ****** terribie, and when i really want someone i push em away or act like we aint ****...then i pull em back in and then push em away again.
like how i do with you. no offense but its true. anyway...
ima go ta sleep. night. im too confused."
I guess my question is what the hell is her deal?? What is she getting at, why the abrupt leave. She didn't even let me respond. My question is just WHY? Usually I'm good at analyzing people && their actions, but her...? I guess I'm just too close to the picture.
Sorry for the novel, thanks in advance for your opinions.
Chyeah. I'm already finding this helpful. But just so there's no confusion two things: she knows I love her of course && she is OPENLY gay. She's perfectly fine with who she is && her sexuality. It's just whenever I'm thrown in the situation, it gets complicat'd.
7 Answers
- TeggleLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
she likes u and she is giving off hints. she just told u wat she does when she likes ppl and want 2 go out with them. if u like her then tell her b4 she pushes u away again. if u don't then just say u want to keep being friends and that she doesn't hav 2 push u away. explain how much ur friendship with her means to u. hopefully she will get the picture. if u really want answers, then go right 2 the source, pull her aside the next time u see her and ask her all the questions u need answered.
good luck
- warrenjudewLv 61 decade ago
She is insecure and probably not really at peace with her sexually yet. People who act like that can be unstable in relationships so I would be very careful about getting involved anymore than you already are or you will get hurt. She is aware of all this and does nothing to change it so I would be running the other way personally.LOL :)
- 1 decade ago
She sounds like she is really confused and if you two ever get together their may be a whole lot more confusion in the relationship. She probably needs to talk to someone to help her figure out if she is really gay or not. Before she gets in a relationship, she needs help asap.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
hello :) i think she is just really confused about her sexuality and who she really is. I think she has a hard time, knowing what do to do. I think her abrupt leave was because she didn't want to face your response, or wasn't ready. I think she just wanted to get that statement off her chest and she did so but just couldn't quite handle your response just yet. I think maybe you should give her some space for a while, but if she wants to talk to you. Listen to her problems and do your best to help :)
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- 1 decade ago
If you love her like she loves you, then tell her and put her at ease. If you love her only as a friend, then tell her there is nothing wrong with her crush, you just don't feel the same way- then reassure her that you love her friendship and you would fight to keep it.
- 1 decade ago
Dude she's so hinting you that she still likes you she just wanted to let you know so you can act on this situation
