Guys, Do you ever make comments like "I wouldn't kick her out of bed" about another woman?

My husband does this occasionally. Actually, the whole saying he uses is: "I wouldn't kick her out of bed for eating crackers." Occasionally, I give the response that if she is hot, she is mine and I'm not sharing her with him. ;) It's just all joking around.

This is horribly damaging. It's not a joke, it's an insult and a real self esteem crusher for women, unless your wife/gf has a really thick skin.

I lasted in a marriage (remarkably) for three years while being constantly reminded of how beautiful and sexy OTHER women were, and being told that I was simply not good enough. (he had nothing to complain about btw.) But still, it really hurt me.

Men, you have to right to do this to your women and expect them to be ok with it. Cruel and selfish and like I said, horribly damaging.

I still have body image issues to this day from that relationship. And every time I see a barbie skinny blonde girl, my heart sinks because I think I'm not good enough.

men, If you respect your woman, don't do this.

girls, if your guy does this, he's a jerk.

It depends on who he says this about. If its a movie star, no big deal, if its your friend, you should be mad.

No never.